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I freaking love you, dude. Thank you so much. You guys are my babies for life, my writers. If I could, I would literally make out with each and every one of you. I love you guys so much. And that's a lot of kisses, actually. Gotta go back. Is this thing on? Bonnie, who used to be a former sex worker, now hosts the podcast, Dumb Blonde. Most little girls grow up wanting to be doctors and lawyers and shit. And I was like, I want to be super hot, make a lot of fucking money, and be a rock star's wife. That was my goal as a child. And here we are. Let's do that.
All right. How should we kick this off?
Just like that. Sup guys! Mimi and I have decided to do a Q&A with you guys today. I feel like this is the most requested thing people want. Yeah. A Q&A or advice or anything along those lines. Yeah. No, we had like a lot, so I'm sorry if we don't get to everyone. Like you guys emailed, you guys DMed, you guys commented on the post that she put up. And there was a lot, so we sifted through them. We chose some of our favorites. Yeah.
And yeah, let's dive into this. I just love this guy so much. He's been getting all the love today. He's just very active. You know, he got a million views on another video on TikTok and he just thinks he's the star of the show now. His head's getting too big. You're too famous, Chach. Put all of us to shame. You're normally laying down. I know. He wants to be a part of it today. Yeah.
Yeah, he wants to... I'm looking at him on the camera right now. Say hi. I think it's my favorite part of the podcast is when he pops his little head up above it. All right, well, just... Here. All right. We're just going to hang out. What are you doing, Bubba? That's the best thing I've ever seen. All right, well, we're just...
I gotta be some people like parrots on their shoulders. I've got an exotic bully. Let's dive into these questions. There was a lot. There was, I mean, some people sent us their life stories and like, it was a lot to go through. Not asking questions anymore.
So we're just going to dive off into one of my favorite ones in here. Let me see where it's at. Because I thought it was such a good question. And we're starting out strong. Would you rather be able to speak to animals or speak every language?
To animals. I don't care to talk to people. I already knew your answer. You said fuck people. Yeah. No, let me walk up to a horse and be like, saw dude. Yeah. Let me fucking... Dude, if I could communicate with Chachi... You already do. Sometimes I wonder. I'm like, are we...
on the same level. Like, I literally can hold conversations with him and even though he doesn't respond back, I know he's listening. You guys, like, have this really special bond. I don't see many people have a bond like you and Josh. Yeah, he's my baby. I love him to death. Sweet baby. My son.
um this one asked stephanie said what's your workout what about you though hold on what about you what would you rather talk to what would i i don't know i kind of wish i would be able to speak every language yeah well you've been trying to like learn fucking i'm doing duolingo
And I've been doing it for 200 days. Yeah, you have. I've been. Almost a year. Yes. Say some words for us. I can't hold the conversation yet. Say some just words. Like mujer means woman. And then like, you know, like. Cabeza. Yeah. I can order beer. Pinche. To.
Tu cerveza. Or like, do cerveza, por favor. De donde es? Yeah. Que hora es? I feel like I can read it really well. I can like, when I go shopping, I can understand the people talking. But. I think he speaks Spanish. I said, me gusto. And he turned. What is happening over here? He's like, I don't know. He's freaking out. You all right? I feel like he responded to your Spanish. He did. Are you Spanish? Chachi, I knew it. I knew you were a Spaniard.
it's the gold chain you okay what's the matter it's his little cuban links he's on alert right now i know he's very like i think he's staring outside and he's catching a shadow i don't know what he's looking at do you no okay well she's acting up today what is your favorite desserts or cheat day meals desserts
I love a good brownie. It has to be dark chocolate. She really likes the Dolly Parton brownies. The Dolly Parton brownies. So fucking good, you guys. They will make you slap your mama. Okay? Like, they are so good. I don't know if she puts crack in them or something, but even Jay, Jay and I had two separate conversations. I fucking told Bug, I was like,
Sorry, Dolly, if you're watching this, I'm cussing. I'm trying not to cuss so you can use it. I told Bug, I was like,
Those Dolly Parton brownies are lit. I was like, they are so good. What's in them? And she's like, nothing, I don't think. And then Jay comes in an hour later and goes, dude, those Dolly Parton brownies were bomb. And that's what I told you about them. Yeah. And so I went to the store that night, literally got them. Me and Olivia made them the next day. And they're like fudge brownies. And you add this like package of fudge into it. And I don't know. They're like not cakey, but they're not like...
Chewy. Like they're the perfect mix of that. Yeah. I don't know what she puts in there. No. Amazing. Amazing. So good. Yeah. Yeah. Go buy a Dolly Parton brownies. The only time you really cheat is like during your period. It's my excuse. I would say like cheat meal. Cause I refuse to get on a scale during my period. So I'm like, you know what?
It's a fucking free for all, but I need to stop doing that because it's really not good for your body. And then you just jump back onto it. I literally just like give myself grace for a week and I'm just like, fuck it. I'm just going to eat the chip. I'm going to eat the fucking bread. I'm going to do whatever. And then as soon as I'm like three days into my period, I'm like, okay, I'm eating better. Yeah. Yeah. I would say my favorite would probably be creme brulee. And it's hard to find like a good creme brulee. I used to love it. And then I ordered it one night from a, um,
from room service at a hotel. And I was so ready for it. I was like drunk, wanted it bit into it. It tasted like fucking hand lotion. Um,
It probably was. Yeah. That's so fucking gross. Because creme brulee is the texture of lotion. Yeah, exactly. And it tasted like lotion. Very perfumey. Yes. Ugh. Yeah. I would freak. No, somebody fucking, I might have been rude to the room service guy or something. Oh, right. And he just put fucking, oh, probably. I'm sure I've swallowed a few babies I didn't mean to along the way.
Oh my god. I can't. I can't even. Where did you and Jelly meet? We met at Las Vegas Country Saloon in 2015 in Vegas. That's the first time you laid eyes. I know, but like, that could be new. First time you laid eyes on him? Yep. He was opening for the Moonshine Bandits and I was like, what is this? What is this man? This big southern boy. Were you at the concert? Were you backstage or like...
So there was not that many people there. So it was more of like everybody was walking around. Oh, like it was like a big room and just with a stage. So everybody was walking around. But yeah, we were backstage like drinking and stuff like that. But like,
There was, it wasn't, Jay wasn't, nobody even knew who he was. He was opening for the Moonshine Bandits, you know? Like he might've had a little pop in Nashville, but people on the West Coast didn't know who he was. We were there for the Moonshine Bandits. That goes into my next question that someone asked. They wanted to know, how has your transition been going from rap to country? It's been smoother than I thought. Yeah? They have been, we haven't met any assholes yet. They've been so welcoming. Yeah, they have literally been so welcoming and just so, um...
Non-judgmental. I mean, at least not to our face. Yeah.
I mean, whatever they say behind closed doors, they're entitled to. But yeah, no, everybody's been like so sweet. You guys have made some really nice friends. Yeah. I love that while we were at CMT Awards, you had a little special something backstage with Wynonna. Oh, I love Wynonna. I'm glad I got that call on camera too, though. Such a special moment. She, I mean, she literally like snuck up on you. She had her eyes locked on you and just beelined. Oh, she is so sweet. Like she's just everything that you would. And she's so tiny.
Yeah. I didn't expect that. Yeah. I thought she was going to be like super tall. She is tiny. That's been my biggest, like, like epiphany with even like just being meeting people you see online or in movies and everything. Everybody's so much smaller, so much smaller than you think. Except for me. Yeah.
You and Callie like tower over people. Everybody. You guys are already naturally tall. Yeah. And then you add heels. Yeah. And you guys are much taller. Everyone's so tiny. I'm five, five, five, six. And I tower over everybody. Yeah. Like it's crazy. It's so wild. Like even some of the musicians we met when you were a kid,
Carly Pierce is tall. Yes, she is tall. She's very tall. When you met Eddie Vedder, I didn't expect him to be... You kind of bent down a little bit to give him a hug. And I was like, I didn't expect that. He was a little nugget. Yeah. These people look so much bigger through a little screen. Yeah. They're very, very tiny. It's crazy. The camera really does add...
height yeah not even pounds but height really yeah that's crazy blake shelton's tall as fuck too yeah one was too was she i didn't get to see her yeah i'm gonna stand next to her yeah she was tall because she was standing next to um she performed with um carly carly and carly's already kind of a little bit taller carly's taller than me yeah she walked by me and she's taller than like they were very
comparison wow yeah i would picture i would think gwen would be tiny i mean i guess when you look at her with blake like he's already such a tall human she doesn't look super small next one so she's got to have some height she's probably like five six yeah she wears those tall ass she does she wears huge shoes yeah yeah
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should we add dirty stuff to this? Sure. Yeah. Does jelly let you squirt on his face? My husband refuses, but it feels so good. My husband is so vanilla. He doesn't like any of that shit. He is like, just ride me and get off. Literally. Give me a blowjob. Ride me. Get off.
Someone asked how you guys get in your mood. How does it? Dude, we're so busy. Like really the last thing we ever think about is sex. I mean, I think about it all the time and I'm sure he does too, but we're just so busy and so tired. You guys have to schedule it into your calendar. And it's like by the end of the night, like he's fucking had a day. I've had a day and we're just like, our thing is like we love crawling into bed and just watching movies.
a TV show together because it's like we don't ever get to really do that, especially like during tour and shit like that. Like so whenever we can just like have a normal sit down and watch a show, that's like foreplay for us. Yeah. Yeah. But me and Jason, you know, Jason's at home raising our kids and he's working and trying to do all the household stuff, too. I'm constantly working. So by the time we like get into bed, it's like
Yeah. It's just like the last thing I want to do is get my heart rate up. And that's how I know I'm getting old because normally the 20 year old me would be swinging from the chandeliers and me. Now I'm just like, I am not about to fucking do cardio before I go to bed when I got to wake up and do it again. Like, fuck that. I've never felt as old as I did when we finally got one of the beds that the head goes up.
Yeah. And that's, I can't sleep without it. When we tour and like we go places, I'm like, man, I really wish that my bed like came up at least three inches right now because that's how I really felt old was the day I got excited about my bed being able to be elevated. We'll never not have a sleep number. Oh,
I don't have a sleep number. We got a Tempur-Pedic. But still. It's a life-changing... You don't realize how good it feels on your body. And you can lift your feet up. Yeah. It's been great. I love the feet thing. Jay hates it. Really? He hates it. But are you guys... Those are individuals, right? Yeah. Or is it one whole bed? Ours is one whole bed. No. So...
It's individual heads. Oh, and then the feet are connected. So now he wants separate beds because I literally, I will, I'll sleep like cradled, like with my head up and my feet up. Zero gravity. Yeah. Like, I love this. Me too. And he hates it. He's like, please fucking stop. I'm like, God, why? I tell him, I'm like, why do you got to come into bed so early? I'm like, you used to come in at like three and now you're coming in at 1030. What is happening? What is going on? I'm like, what is going on? That's funny.
This person said, what is your biggest insecurity? Because, I mean, you do exude confidence. I think people misjudge
having confidence with not having any insecurities you can be confident and still be insecure yeah that's what i was gonna ask like what would an insecurity have because i think i don't think people realize that like everyone struggles with that no matter how confident you look online or in person or whatever someone's gonna still have an insecurity yeah i mean i think
I wish I could fucking grow muscular legs and not have my dad's arms. And like, you know, I think women pick their bodies apart all the time, which is why I'm a perfectionist with my appearance and stuff. Um,
probably like my anxiety is an insecurity because I'm constantly having to apologize to people for like, sorry, I just can't hang out. Like, you know, or like if people, or if I'm in the middle of a fucking podcast, Hey, if you see me wiping myself down with a fucking ice pack or yeah, you know, like, so I mean that that's an insecurity. It doesn't always have to be physical. It could definitely be like, you know, mental or it could be, you know, like there's certain things like that. Yeah. Yeah. What about you?
That one's hard because I've gone through this huge self-love journey over the last since I had cash. Yeah. You know, like after I had cash that I really don't give any more fucks. Like it's really hard to say like it's an insecurity. Yeah. Yeah. Like after him, I worked so hard on like not having insecurities because I felt like it held me back so much because I really let almost my insecurities cripple me.
So I feel like if I admit to having an insecurity, it's kind of like a crippling thing to me. Like, you know, before it was always my weight, you know, being plus size and I've been plus size my entire life that I started taking as a child. Oh yeah. Like not like,
at like Olivia's age or anything, but quickly like right at the edge of puberty was when my PCOS set in, which I didn't know at the time was PCOS. So I just gained weight dramatically, but I was always a thick girl too. Like even as a child. Listen, motherfuckers are in my DM for you all the time. Girls and guys. Yeah. Sorry, Jason. I'm always like, she's fucking married. Like, what do you want me to do? Yeah, no, I was always like thicker. Even like when I played sports as a kid, like I was never like a beanpole. My body's just not structured.
structured that way at all like just being naturally thick that was a huge insecurity until I let it not defeat me any longer and that's been like huge because even when I lose weight now I think like I talked about that before was like getting through the hurdles of like self-image before I decided to lose weight because I got to my biggest it was a very very unhappy place but I was like you know what fuck this like if I just like
Let these insecurities like take a hold of me. It's like a miserable life to live So I took a hold of the insecurities and I I don't give a fuck if someone thinks I'm plus-size like it doesn't affect them I think age to like the older you get ladies the more you do not give a shit about What people think about you? You're just you get to a point where like I can't fucking please you I don't give a shit I am me
I'm going to pull whoever I need to pull. The people who love me are going to love me. Like if you don't fuck with me, I do not care. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. You get to a point, like you said, it, it probably has to do with age too, because like I had cash around 29. So like, you know, going into my thirties and I'll be 31 this weekend. And it just really made me realize like,
even if you if you thought badly of me like this whole time like oh god I wouldn't wear a crop top because like what if someone thinks badly of me yeah I wouldn't want you in my life if you were thinking badly of me yeah you know so like that's been a huge thing for me was like in that insecurities it's like if you thought those things about me why the fuck would I want you in my life yeah no I couldn't agree more so like it's like people have accepted me
The people who have accepted me accepted me being plus size. It's not a fucking... I used to hide behind you and you know this, like big oversized clothes with leggings. When I first met you. Yes. That's all I would wear. And I was like, it's like I thought that was like camouflage. Like someone doesn't know I'm plus size under here if I just wear oversized shirts and leggings.
No, I'm still fat regardless, you know? So like if I wear the crop top and jeans, it's no different. No, at least now I'm comfortable, you know? And I feel pretty before it was like, you only could choose certain clothes sort of thing. I can't wait till Jay gets there because he's such a cute little squishy baby. And I just feel like because he is in front of such a huge audience, just critiquing him all the time, all the time that like, he always feels like he has to hide behind jackets and flannels and
I'm like layers was another thing. Yeah, baby. You don't got to do that. Like just be the little squish that you are. Yeah. And just, yeah. Like I said, and Jason struggles to like, sorry to put your, you know, info out on there, but like he struggles being a bigger dude also with like his insecurities. And I've really tried to help him. And all you can do is love those people because it does not matter. Jason has told me I was beautiful since the day we met.
But until you see it yourself, nothing's going to change that. You could be behind that person pushing them for years. Oh, yeah. You know, you're certain, like you said, you tell him all the time how like, you know, you love everything about him. That doesn't matter until the person themselves decides to make that change. The same thing with weight loss. Yeah. You know, like this past like two months, I've lost 30 pounds and I'm more appreciative of those 30 pounds. Yeah.
now that I've loved myself because I wasn't doing it to love myself right that was the biggest biggest difference I've ever done was I didn't I'm not trying to lose weight to love myself I'm doing it because I want to be healthier yeah I want to be able to you know like go jump on the trampoline with my kids and things like that which I wasn't able to do it that way
So I'm doing it for a whole different reason than I ever have before. And I appreciate it so much more now. And I've kept it off. Like I have not fluctuated at all, which normally I would have probably off the bandwagon a long time ago and already started like eating shit food again. But yeah. No, I love that for you. Yeah.
That was a whole nother rant. No, I think people needed to hear that. Yeah. You know, and I think I can talk about stuff till I'm blue in the face, but people don't believe me because I've had work done or I, you know, work out all the time, but hearing it from somebody who is, who really battles weight issues and hearing you be able to be confident. I think they need to hear that.
Because and I always had the misconception that you had to be born confident or you just were naturally confident. And that's not the case. Like it can be learned. And I told myself that I was like, I didn't come out of the fucking womb knowing how to drive a car or do hair or do art.
our lifestyle that we're doing now, all those things were learned. So why can't I learn confidence? Yeah. So that it was just a learning journey. It wasn't that I had to be born with it or like I was naturally confident because that's not the case. And what actually helped me. And I don't think I've ever told you this was you and Viking Barbie were like a huge part of my confidence journey because I got close with both of you guys. And I got to see that even the industry's most perfect humans, like in the eye of the world, like you and Viking Barbie are like,
You know, I love you, but like you still struggle. Oh yeah. You, you, you don't see yourself like how the world sees you. You see yourself how you see yourself. And to me, I was like, man. So even if I looked perfect,
Even if I would still struggle, I would still have anxiety or depression because like Viking Barbie opened up about like her mental health also. And you were very open about your mental health. And I was like, oh, so being skinny doesn't make my depression just fucking go away. You know, like that wasn't the case. And I was like, damn. I was like, I don't think I ever told you guys that. But yeah, that was a huge part of me. Like making that flip is being closer to you guys and realizing like, look,
looking perfect doesn't make you mentally stable or you will pick yourself apart no matter what exactly i'm sure alex earl looks in the mirror and is like fuck i fucking feel fat today meanwhile she's a fucking just gorgeous being you know exactly yeah and i didn't but i never saw that because you never get close enough to people right that are look that far away from you you know like i never thought of my life being this right now so to be able to be close and like you are so open about your mental health online which helps
I mean more people than I think you'll ever know. I don't have a choice. I'm a weird bitch. I don't want people to think I'm stuck up. It's just more of like, I'm not stuck up. I'm not guarded. I'm just, I have fucking panic disorder. You're raw and real. And like that helps so many people like realize that it doesn't take those things to be mentally stable.
Speaking of food, our fucking subs are on the way. I've been checking the phone. Oh, I was like, did you see me? I was like, I'm going to get the fucking sandwiches. No, that's why I've been checking this. I'm like, they're on the way. I just hope it's for us and not the house because I just ordered fucking...
That for them. Let me see. Hold on. I'll tell you right. Let me get my glasses on. Sorry, guys. We are hungry. We have pulled it all day here at the house. It's our third recording. Yeah. It's been crazy. Yep. This is ours on the way. Yay. Perfect. This is a good one because I chose this specifically because I know this is the struggle of both of ours. Kimberly wants to know, what do you do during your mean time? Mean? Or me? Me. Oh. Me time. Me time.
Do we really have? Do we have? When I'm off, I'm literally making clips for TikTok. I'm posting on YouTube shorts. I'm posting. I post on Facebook like it's Twitter. Yeah. You know, like I don't I just always feel like idle hands are of the devil. And I know that's trauma from my childhood. Yeah. But I just can't break it. I have to always be doing something because March was hard for you to like and it.
you said it was a month off it wasn't a month off guys you sound like my husband he even said that last night i was like i've had a month off in five years and he was like when did you have a month off i was like no i said fucking march and he was like and then actually technically i had one last march too but i was still fucking doing shit you still made content yeah yeah no there there's not been a month off like a step away from it because and i get it though because like if you sit in your thoughts for too long or you just like
stagnant it's just sit still yeah like even if i'm at home like okay i finally have trained myself to be able to lay on the couch maybe a little too good now but before i would have never laid on the couch before jay taught me how to relax yeah because i literally would i'd be around everybody just nervous energy cleaning doing something and jay would finally be like sit the down yeah quarantine is actually what kind of made me have to sit down yeah he's like how many times are you going to clean the kitchen
Yeah. You know, like sit the fuck down. We're trying to watch a movie, you know? Yeah. That's, and it's hard for both of us. Like we both struggle on that because also things like, um, that we do, we don't attribute to work because we've just been doing it for so long. You know, we're just building, um,
Exactly. And like it may like it. Exactly. It's just part of the machine. Yeah. And so like that wasn't really a month off. Like a month off would be us like literally putting our phones down, which is like you can't do that. There's no way. Exactly. There's literally no way to make that possible. We've built our entire life online. So if if if it's not us pushing the Patreon, the fucking podcast, the TikToks, the fucking
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Exactly. Yeah. If I don't post, you know, there's a problem. Being an adult has its high points. Like you can eat ice cream for dinner anytime, or if you want to stay up all night, you can, but it's not always fun. You also have to do your taxes and figure out what's for dinner every freaking night.
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Sign up today. I would say my me time is like when we do our car shows because I think that's the only it's the two times a year my husband and I go out and I put my phones down. Like I even tell the salon like I am not relevant for the next three days. Yeah. And I know that six days a year isn't much but that is like my moments. Yeah. And I still manage to bother her. No.
While she's there. Like, I just, I can't stress that enough that like, it's so important to at least have like something, you know? And like, even though it's not a whole month off, there were days that you very much like stepped away and I was very proud of you. Like you just, you did you, you know, you, you've started meditating, which I think is incredible. I'm a little jealous. I don't have a quiet space to meditate. And,
ever. I just go out front or out in the backyard and my kids would be up my ass 24 seven. If I'm home, my kids are with me. Like I don't, I don't even pee alone. Like Jason had to start being like, all right, when mom goes poop, like everyone out of the bathroom, cause Cash is just standing there. What are you doing? Then Olivia's like, look at this thing.
I made and like I know that like I'm not home much so I try to use those moments to be like wow that's a beautiful art project smoking used to be my vice because the kids couldn't be around it and I'm sober now yeah I have nowhere to go laughing
She's like, I am present. Very fucking present. Oh God. No, being sober is the worst. This age right now, having a two year old, I just got Olivia out of my bed. Okay. So she's now in her bedroom in her beautiful little bed and cash has decided he can no longer sleep alone. I, there was no, there was no transition. It literally went from one kid to another and now I'm sleeping with another kid in my bed and it is. He won't sleep with Liv.
No. No. And they both are like the weirdest like movers. Bailey is the worst in the air. Does she move like she'll slap you on your face? Yes. Turns around. She's like a head at the end of the bed. But she like like makes noises in her sleep. They do, too.
What are you fucking doing, dude? Straight talking in their sleep. Yeah. Like, Olivia will have a full conversation in her sleep. Yeah. Cash is just, like, cries sometimes in his sleep. And I don't know what it is. Like, night terrors. I don't know why he'd have night terrors. Tears from the room. The womb. Yeah, literally. I'm just like, what is up with these kids? And, like, now he's in our fucking bed. You know? And it's like, it is. The young age is the toughest. Now that I'm at, like, she's at...
almost seven this year. I'm like, wait, come back. Like, you know, now she's like, I want to go sit in my room and like, I want to go do these things. Oh, wait till she's a teenager. Bailey, I can't even get, she'll eat dinner with us. And then she goes up to her room. I'm like, Hey, where are you going? Yeah. Where are you going? She's like, I'm going to my room. I'm like,
All right. Well, let me know if you miss me. You know, like while you're up there. And it's that age, you know. And it is. It's rough having a little. They are up your ass 24-7. Oh, Bailey was fucking three years away from being 18. Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, driving alone. I don't think she's ever. Bailey's always going to live with us. I really don't think she's ever going to branch out on her own unless she goes to college. But yeah, she recently decided that she doesn't want to be.
a doctor anymore she wants to pursue music and i'm like okay oh that's happened nice i know i was bummed because i was i really loved how headstrong she was about wanting to be a doctor yeah but you know it's not our journey yeah you know so it's like well she's flip-flopped a lot she made me give it a year she's a fucking gemini she's gonna flip-flop her whole life but luckily she has a capricorn moon
And I'm really betting on that Capricorn moon to just pull her together. Yeah. You're like, come on. Come on, doctor. Come on, Capricorn. Let's go. Yeah. Or even like something like in a field that she's very passionate about. Because I knew that the whole doctor thing, she was doing it for seizures and like things like that. So, you know, that's something she was really passionate about. She has a very caretaker personality. So she loves helping people. She finds herself worth in helping people. Yeah. So...
which I wish I did. I'm a people pleaser. You know that about me? Yeah. I love it. I'm like, let me work. That's my, that's what brings me happiness. You know, it makes me feel good, but no, she's a, she's definitely a caretaker. So I thought the medical industry would have been great for someone said they wanted to know what your heritage was. And their guess was you are Latino. Um, I am white trash and Brazilian. So my Volvo was a hundred percent, um, Brazilian, um,
And my mom is white trash roots from Kentucky. But you didn't always know this. What have you? I've told this story before, but I'll tell it again. My fucking dad, a good old bill. Okay. Let me just tell you that motherfucker.
told me my entire life I was Brazilian and Italian. So I've told everybody I'm Brazilian and Italian, you know, like, and if I can, you know, cause it sounds so exotic and this fucking guy, I don't think he thought I was his kid came to me one time and was like, Hey, I'm going to come out and visit you, but I want you to take this test that I took to find out what percentage everything you are. And I'm like something like, Oh, my dad wants to find out our heritage and stuff like that. You know? So he comes out here, swabs me and,
and, you know, gets me to send the thing in or whatever. Meanwhile, he was low-key trying to figure out if I was his kid because my mom had just admitted that my sister's dad wasn't her dad. Oh, yeah, we're white trash around here. But anyway, so I think in the back of his mind, he was like, is this fucking kid mine, you know? So we get our test results back, and there's not any fucking Italian at all. I'm like, hey, Bill, are we fucking Italian? He's like, well, no. No.
I'm like, well, no, I'm like, my whole fucking life is a lie. And I'm telling you, I just found this out when I was 41. Yeah. So when I finally got to meet my mom and I was like, mom, where are we from? Apparently I come from like a long line of like witches from Southern Kentucky.
Wow. Yeah. And I was like, oh, so we're just white trash. It makes sense. White trash gypsies. Oh, I love it. Yeah. So I'm like, fuck it. I'll take it. It's better than being Italian, I guess. Yeah. This next question is, when did you begin your holistic journey? I began that probably when I started getting sober. Technically, I started that in 2020 whenever I felt my first bout of suicidal ideation. That was... I will never forget...
laying in my bed and literally I felt so tired
And just like, I didn't want to be here anymore. The thought of living to like 50 years old made me fucking like I was exhausted and I was just like, I can't do this anymore. And I didn't even realize like how bad that's that shit gets. I've always not kind of scoffed at people with depression, but I didn't understand it because I had anxiety. I'm a go getter. I'm going to get up, get out and do something. If I'm having a panic attack, I'm going to fucking run through it, you know? And
And when I got that suicidal ideation, that was a different level of fear because you're, you don't trust yourself and you're just like, holy shit, this is dark. Yeah. You know?
And so, you know, me being a person who tries to fight and figure it out, I was like, okay, first of all, I'm never going to let this overcome me. Secondly, I need to figure out why I'm feeling like this. And, you know, by that time I had been sober about a year and a half, two years off alcohol, sober off pills almost since 2017. I think it was probably late 2017 that I stopped taking pills.
So I think, you know, it took two years for my brain to just even think about healing after all the drugs I'd been on. I've been on fucking Xanax since I was 20 something years old. You know, that's right there alone is neurological damage. Yeah.
I mean, I'm talking like I drank. Like, it was scary. I could drink a whole bottle of Belvedere and still be standing. Yeah. And people don't realize the tolerance you can build up having drank as much. Oh, yeah. As you had. Like, I mean...
you know, I'm sober, but I did have like this much wine the other night. And when I say this much wine had me turnt. Tipsy. I was like, I remember I had like a year ago, you know, eight fucking Red Bulls and vodkas. I drink this much Chardonnay and I'm like spinning on the couch. I'm like, Jason's like, you good? And I'm like,
a little percolate. No, no fucking, you know, I don't fuck you up too. Yeah. It was a Martha Stewart one too. I love, and I'm probably going to get a lot of shit for this, but I love how a lot of Southern women hide alcoholism behind wine drinking. Oh, I have stories. Yeah. But a lot of women hide their alcoholism behind wine and I get it. That's their only way to, um,
But I mean, are you really relaxing or are you covering up some more shit? Those same people will like scoff at like marijuana smokers. Yeah. Or judge people who don't go to church every day. Exactly. Or every Sunday. You're literally like, you know, mimosas before you're taking your kids to school. Yeah. Yeah.
Like those are the things, those are the choices you're making. That's fair. And it's not just Southern women too. Bitches in Vegas are the same way, except it's not wine. It's champagne. Yeah. Yeah. They'll get lit on champagne at 10 AM. Like it's nothing. Yeah. I'm like, man, I wish I could do that. I wish I could be that free. I could never imagine. And we're not judging. No. We're just saying like, you know. Yeah, absolutely. Pay attention to why you're drinking as opposed to.
How you're drinking. Yeah. What are you masking? Yeah, exactly. What are you running from? Are you in an unhappy marriage? Are the kids driving you fucking crazy? You know, listen, if I had kids, I would drink bottles of wine too. Okay. So we're definitely not judging at all. But I was just saying that, you know, you can be an alcoholic, but
and not even realize it. Yeah, exactly. Well, and like, cause they don't see that as alcohol abuse or anything like that, you know? Yeah. That's so true. Like, I feel like sometimes it goes in hand in hand with like men who are beer drinkers.
it's just a beer. You know, you're like five packs in. It's no longer just a beer. Like the whole bed of your truck is full of them. And it's the same thing like with women and their wine. Some fucking troll the other day was talking shit about my husband and he's like, he's not sober. I saw him fucking pound a beer at a concert the other day. I said, my first of all, that's a lie. Oh, I said, secondly, my husband doesn't drink beer.
Yeah. I don't think I've ever seen him touch a beer. Ever. My husband would never drink a fucking beer. Ew. Yeah. Jay's bougie when it comes to shit. Oh, no. It was just crazy to me. So when you said that about the beer, I was like, oh, this is hilarious. I got to tell this. What would you tell someone that is fresh out of a domestic relationship? Domestic violence or like domestic marriage? You said relationship. Probably relationship. Allow yourself grace.
You know, you're gonna probably go back seven more times. You're gonna be mad at yourself. You're gonna be mad at that person. You're gonna think you're making the wrong choice. You are going to be addicted to the chaos. It's like...
you go through like withdrawal. It's like a drug withdrawal from that person. You touched on this in the kale podcast, both of her podcast and your podcast. And I feel like that's very insightful. So I would say to hear more about that, I would go listen to those podcasts because you guys really went in depth with like how you felt in those moments. Yeah. And like,
coming out of those and, like, how you guys are now on the other end of your domestic relationships. And you said something really, really, like, kind of caught me. And you said you always think they're going to do better, but they never do. No, they never do. Like, you...
It's like you want to fix them and you want so badly for them to be the person that you need. And they're just never going to be that person. Yeah. They're literally just trapped in their own toxicity. And until they want to actually really get help.
I don't know if you can ever really calm a violent nature like that in a human, a man that beats on women. That's a different breed. Yes. You know, I don't know if that's ever really fixable. And what did you say about the narcissism? Is that like, they don't want,
people knowing about it. Oh yeah. Because they don't want to be embarrassed. They don't want to be embarrassed about themselves. They don't care that they hurt you. The guilt isn't there that they hurt you. They don't want to look like monsters to other people. Yes. It's the ego. Yeah. Part of it. Yeah. So tell people, tell, you know, if you need help,
find the help that you yeah tell people but just know that if you do tell people about it and then you run back to them you're gonna have to deal with that too so it's just a whole ready to wipe your hands clean yeah it's a whole cycle and once you are ready to get off the fucking hamster wheel you will hamster wheel that's a good that's literally what it is you're just fucking spinning your wheels yeah um what would you tell a young woman with big dreams in her 20s relationship or life advice
In your 20s, I would tell you don't worry about a relationship. I would say have fun and our food is here. I would say have fun.
You're 20. Literally love is going to be there. If I could go back and talk to 20 year old bunny, I would eliminate half the dudes I fucking dated and wasted my time with. Yeah. No dude ever brought any fucking sort of worth to my relation, to my relationship with myself or to my life. I was always me fucking bringing in the money, fucking helping, trying to fix them, chasing them, fucking dealing with cheaters and, and,
Fuck that, dude. Yeah. Invest in yourself. Fall in love with yourself. Love will come. Fall in love with yourself. Literally. Once you fall in love with yourself, you'll find somebody who will know how to love you because you will know how you want to be loved. Yes. And when people, you know, get into their 30s, okay, cool. You want to start settling down, whatever. I still think you should still be having fun. Find your groove. Find what you want to do. Mm-hmm.
Don't live for everybody else. Live for yourself because this is... You need to be selfish with your time. Yeah. Because you are only going to be in your 20s once. Yeah. You don't get to go back. Yep. You know? So make those fucking... You don't have to have a career in your 20s. No. You don't need to know what you want to do in your 20s. No. You literally just need to have fun. Yes. Do everything that you fucking...
Love and do it twice. Yeah. You know? Exactly. Like, I think it's so important. Like, everyone is so pressed for you to find out what you want to be when you're 18. Yeah. No one knows what the fuck they want to be when they're 18. Weird. When you're 20. When you're 21. Like, I spent 10 years behind the chair. And...
You have no idea when I stepped away and like I retired from behind the chair and went full time with you. How many of my friends reached out within the beauty industry and was like, how'd you step away? I didn't realize how many people were so miserable that the hair community is filled with people who thought that was a quick answer when we were 18. Yeah. We wanted to please a parent or it was a cheap college to go to or something along that. There are so many misgivings.
miserable people out there working behind the chair because they're so afraid to go do something else. Yeah. And at 28 years old... Not just hair, but in life. Yes. Like if your family has a family business or, you know, if your parents make you go to college. I mean, go to fucking college. Have fun. Fuck everybody. It's okay to change careers. Yeah. Like, don't try to be...
you're going to be the rest of your life in your twenties. Get it all out of the way. Just do it. Yeah. I can do it, dude. Yeah. It's so crazy. I was so scared. Cause I thought for sure, whatever I decided to be when I was 18 is what I had to be the rest of my life. And I'm so glad I told my parents to go fuck themselves. I'm not like, I'm going to do whatever I want to do. Yeah. I've been doing whatever I wanted to do my entire life. Yeah. And I don't regret it. The only thing I regret in my life is the men I allowed to hurt me. Yeah. Well,
And you don't realize that until you're fucking so far removed out of it and just in a different headspace. You're like, you're like, golly, you can't see it when you're in it at all. Like, why did I even deal with that? Yeah. It's looking back that you then realize and hope that someone is listening right now that needs that help. Yeah. That step away because you can't be on the other end looking back if you're constantly in it. That and just, you just, men don't really bring much value. Yeah.
especially men nowadays i couldn't even imagine i'm so lucky i got so many did yeah i feel so bad for you guys having a date right now i could never i feel so bad for them literally i if i was that age bailey i'm gonna freaking freak out when she starts really dating i couldn't do it it's just too much like i'm so happy that i'm just i'm so happy where i'm at yeah yeah i was so lucky to find that person when i found them and it was a very young age like i met him when i was 18 so like
We were young, but I'm so fucking thankful for it. Yeah, absolutely. Not just saying that because you're editing this. We love you. We love work, Daddy. Should I get our sandwiches so we can eat? If not, because I'll eat while we fucking answer questions. You know me. I do not care. We could answer a couple more questions as long as I have a sandwich in my mouth. I'm fine. Are you bringing the sandwiches? Okay. I'm like, wait. Wait, don't tease me. You've been working me to the bone all day. Jason, leave all this in.
I don't even know what we ordered. There's only two people here. What did we eat? I'm starved. What did we order? Did they give us? Whose order is this? This is not ours. Okay, this is ours. Oh my God, that's theirs. They combined ours because I ordered right behind each other.
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um one of my stylists has been struggling with like anxiety and stuff like that come to find out i think she's having heart palpitations like you did um and they they wouldn't able to find it but they kept telling her anxiety anxiety just like go on anxiety medication or whatever i was like before you try like med like try meditation you know apparently heart palpitations are normal
They say that they're normal. Yeah, it's fucking weird, but I don't think they're normal. That's weird. Wow. Jason gets them a lot, but I thought it was from his sleep apnea. Meditation has been the most healing thing because when you learn how to control your breath, it is a game changer. Because anxiety, you're hyperventilating. You're not getting enough oxygen or you're getting too much oxygen. So to be able to acknowledge that and be like,
take a deep breath and then breathe out. Like it's, it's phenomenal what it can do for you. And literally I have so much control now over my thoughts because of meditation. I haven't done it in two days and I can feel a difference. But like this other thing I've been doing, I saw this girl on Tik TOK who said, if you want to rewire your brain, every time you think a thought that you don't think belongs to you, because you can say other people's thoughts too. And
Or you can thank other people's thoughts. One, you say, that's not my thought. Pass it. And you can pass it to another person, which I don't. Don't pass it over here. You guys don't want some of my thoughts. But another thing you can do is say change. So now anytime anything negative pops into my head, I say change. And it's become such a habit now. So like things I don't like change. And I can really slowly feel myself changing. Uh-huh.
Because a lot of things that I would have participated in before, I don't want anything to do with because I just don't feel like it does any good for me. You know? And, you know, like...
People saying shit online or, you know, like normally would have pissed me off. And now I'm just like, go heal. You know, like I'm just over it. Go heal. Yeah, literally go heal, bitch. That's what I say to all these fucking grumpy ass trolls online. I'm like, you are too old to be this toxic. Like, golly, do better with your life. Unhealed, like you said, and just toxic people like find themselves online.
yeah it is like they hide behind it they all find each other yeah yeah they all look the same too literally that's the truth a lot of them won't even put profile pictures up they hide so much behind it it's crazy this person kelly said i want to know how to move towards an open relationship and i know you guys don't have an open relationship
Um, so we might not be able to give too much advice on this, but I thought this was an interesting question. She said, I kind of am into Polly, but my man only wants to welcome women into the relationship, but I want a relationship that's because there's no ownership. If that makes sense. Yeah, absolutely. So, so that's how Jay and I are. There's just no ownership. Yeah. We're not here to tell you that you can't do something. You have free will. Um, um,
I don't like giving advice for this because everybody's emotions are different. I don't want to ever cause problems in people's relationships, but I think the best thing that you can do is communicate. Talk about how you're feeling like, hey, I don't want to just have only girls. Yeah. I want to have fun too. And if that bothers him, then...
I don't think that you should have to give in to how, what he wants if he's not willing to compromise for what you want. Yeah. That's just my opinion. You know, um, agreed upon boundaries. Like you and Jay have boundaries to your guys' relationship. It's an agreement. Yeah. You know, like, look, I love you. I'm going to do life with you for the rest of my life, but I don't expect you to only put your dick in me. Don't let it be, um, one sided. That is ownership. Yeah. Yeah.
You know, and if that's what you're trying to get away from, that's just adding to it. So you need to be able to have your boundaries accepted. And, you know, not that you both have to have, like, your own boundaries, but, like, you guys have to come to a mutual ground because it is a marriage. And there is two of you that are making this work. That and...
you're going to end up resenting your partner if he's doing everything if you see him sleep with another woman and he tells you you can't sleep with another man you are going to end up being really resentful and in the end that's really bad for a relationship yeah you could cause yourself more problems yes and accepting in something like this because you're wanting to make it work for one person and in reality it needs to work for both of you yeah exactly like that's not that's not fair
Does that mean that just because I'm allowed to sleep with other people, I'm running out banging everybody in the world? Absolutely fucking not. I can't. I feel like so many people think that. Yeah, it's so weird. And my team knows because they're with me 24 fucking seven. I can't even fucking shake people's hands. I'm not going to let somebody put their dick in me. Yeah. You won't even touch a rail coming downstairs. No. What the fuck makes you think you're just a bunch of random dicks? No. I'm such an energy person. Yeah. Yeah.
And like you said earlier in the podcast, like it's an exchange of energy. It is. You're not just fucking the fuck. Like there is something more there. And like, you have to be very selective with what you're allowing. Absolutely. How do I find a career? Do I do what I love or just work a job that pays the bills? That's a question for you. So if I was to answer that, that's hard because I have this mindset of like, I can monetize anything.
So, like, if I have a hobby, I'm like, how can we make money off this hobby? Like, it's a really sick way to think because then that turns into, like, not being able to have the me time or the hobbies or anything like that because I'm constantly, like, I don't know. I'm just that type of person. So, I would almost say don't do anything.
what you love to do. Like if you were to love something and you're super passionate about it, it will burn you out. You know, find something that you love doing that you could make a career out of, but not what you absolutely love. Like if it, if I guess, I don't know, that's hard too. It's like, you know, a baker, like you love baking. And I'm going to stem this back to, I had a conversation with one of my stylists and her boyfriend loves to cook.
And like he and she showed me the plate like he plates it like he knows the flavors. And she always said, like, why don't you go be a chef? And he said, because then I won't love food.
to do this. This is my hobby. This is my getaway. They say when you love something, you'll let it kill you. Yes, exactly. So don't find the thing that you are most passionate about and make a career out of it. Let hobbies be hobbies. Let me time be me time and just find something that you enjoy doing. As far as like working a regular job, I would, I would work, um,
To afford to do whatever it is that you want to do that you can do for the rest of your life. Yeah Yes, you know like I had only until I kept my only fans and that fueled my podcast until my podcast could finally pay for itself Mm-hmm soon as it started doing that and I even told me me once it reaches a certain number I'm shutting down my only hands. Yeah, and I did that, you know, so that's
I think that's kind of what she was asking too, is like, do I just work a job that I can't stand? And it's like, don't work a job you can't stand, but do something that's going to help,
put you in a position to be able to choose what you want to do. Yeah. And work for your lifestyle. That's another thing. Like, uh, you don't so many times, like you think you, everyone's goal is to just be this like crazy rich. Yeah. Like, is that what you really want? I don't want a fucking huge mansion. I could never, I would never strive to have the size house that you have. Yeah. That's just me though. Like the, I would rather have like
Like tons of cars, you know, because that's just what the lifestyle I want. No, I get it. I don't want to. I don't like having a lot of money. Yeah. It scares the shit out of me. I always thought I did for like because I don't know if we're just conditioned from being young. We are like you have to be rich. You got to become a millionaire. OK, become a millionaire. Now what? Yeah. It's like you pay.
So much more taxes than anybody. Yeah. You're fucking robbed. Yeah. Your circle gets smaller. You can't trust people. Like, it's just when they say more money, more problems, they really meant that. Yeah, truly. And I think a happy life is just quaint, quiet. And not that I'm complaining. This is the position that I have put myself in. And I'm happy to be here. And I'm happy to be my family's first millionaire. You're so thankful for it. Yeah. So thankful. But, you know, it comes with a price. Mm-hmm.
And I think me seeing those kind of things and like, you know, I just personally don't want something big because one, it's a lot of upkeep. You know, at first, I don't want to clean all that, you know, and I know Jason don't want to clean all that, you know, and so it's like, I would be cool. I mean, I would be so happy with like literally cleaning
a four bedroom house so that both my kids have bedrooms and we have, you know, an extra playroom for them and then an office in it. I would be so cool with that, but like hella acreage and then like a shop for Jason. That would be like so goal for me. I don't have to have this like crazy large home. That's just not what makes you happy. So I hope that she finds...
something that... A middle ground. Yeah, fuels her lifestyle that she strives to have. Don't mind me, guys. I'm just switching sandwiches. She's like, here's some ASMR real fast of my jersey. That's honestly what I feel like. That's pretty much a lot of my questions. I feel like we've gotten...
All the questions. I mean, you guys sent in a lot, but any other ideas you guys want on Patreon, shoot them our way. I know we were thinking about doing a cooking one, doing some cooking for you guys because everyone really enjoyed Bailey's cooking episode. You guys really wrote in. She wrote in about. Yeah. Like you guys have used that recipe and have really, you know, enjoyed that. So her and I were thinking about doing that. Don't mind me. Give them a little ASMR.
It's gluten-free bread, so it's really dry, but it's so good. I love gluten-free bread over regular bread. Really? I didn't have to take a bite. I'm good. Love you guys. We'll see you later. Bye. Bye. Bye.