One thing about Coachella, Reality TV, and signs he really likes you
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Hi guys, welcome back to another episode. I'm Sam and I'm Taylor so excited to chat with you guys today I haven't seen you since we last podcasted. I know and I was about to say is that art new? Yeah, but it's crooked as fuck. I have to re- It is very crooked. Yeah, we'll try again. My brain's crooked right now. So I don't think we'll try again. Um, I couldn't like measure it and put it like by myself I need someone else to hold the tape measure if that makes sense like it's a two-person job

If someone else holds the tape measure. Usually if I do like three in a row, I'll measure from the ground up to make sure it's like all even like height wise. Yeah. Does that make sense? Yeah. I just need someone else to hold the tape measure with me. Yeah. And we'll help. Yeah. Yeah. You know, it's hard. It's hard out here hanging things on the wall. So I need my mom for it. My mom is really good at that. Yeah. So what are we talking about this week? Okay. So I just wanted to rant about things I've been talking about on TikTok because like it's like...

people had a lot to say and like the video got a lot of like attention and we have some it's been a topic i feel in life recently because some of our friends are batshit crazy uh when it comes to dudes dudes that clearly don't like them and i think it just needs to be put out there for the girls yeah

this guy literally doesn't give a shit if you live or died i know and i feel like i have a lot to say in regards to my boyfriend because i went through waves with him like does he like me does he not like me does he like me so i feel like and you can see the switch when they like you don't like you oh one thousand percent yeah like you see it happen it's easy and just like we have friends that are convinced men like them and when we say like them like

They like you enough to sleep with you and like, like your stories. But when I say if they like you, I mean that they actually would like to date you. Yeah. Like there's a potential. Yeah. Like you already maybe have hooked up with them once. And like, do they really like you? Dude, I have a mosquito bite on my foot. It's so itchy. I just discovered it. Oh, gross. Don't scratch it. I know. I know.

Anyways, what's one thing about you? My one thing about me, fuck, I had, what was my two? Oh, we talk about this a million times on the podcast, but I've finally decided this past weekend that one thing about me is I will not be eating raw fish before I do any type of drinking. I said that this weekend. You did? Yeah, because I said, oh, I'm going to get a Poke Bowl, and I was like, oh, I don't want raw fish. And she was like, you and Sam are both so weird about that. And I was like, I don't know.

know yeah I so I went to dinner with my boyfriend he surprised me on where we were going and then an hour before we go I find out it's sushi and I was just planning on not going out at all over the weekend and then he had friends in town so he's like we have to go out and see them and I'm like okay that means I have to get like a little bit of a buzz going and just in the back of my mind I'm drinking espresso martini and then a matcha martini and I'm just like

This is not flowing and I need to go home. So I ended up going home. I was like, I just, the thought of knowing I have raw fish like floating around in my stomach and I'm trying to get drunk. Just, I can't. Cooked rolls. Not even though. Just fish. Fish in general. I can't do it. It's a mental thing, I guess for me. Cause I just kind of agree. I think I'm not even a puker when I drink, I don't throw up. But in my head I'm like, wow, what if I had to like, what if you threw up? Raw fish. Nasty. Yeah.

I can't. No, I agree. It's not my first choice. That's why when we went to the restaurant, I ordered like some other things just to have some substance. Yeah. But yeah. Would agree. My one thing about me is. Oh, my God. Wait, I forgot. Wait. Oh, my God. Why does this always happen? I had these all planned out. Oh, my one thing about me is that I tried fucking core power last week. Yeah. How was it?

That shit is so weird. The workout is weird, but you sweat so good in there. So like one thing about me is I'm going to kind of become a semi-regular at core power because you just sweat so much. Like the workout, if you weren't in a heated room, like you do nothing. Like it's bullshit.

I think you can get that if you go to lift ATX. No, no, no, no. The sweat. Well, maybe the summer. No, you sweat so much as a heated room. I know. It feels so good. Like down the road. And it's really light. Like on a Sunday, like you drank the night before you kind of like mobility kind of stretch out because you do some yoga. So it felt really good to like kind of like stretch out a little bit. And then like every single ounce of fluid comes out of your body. How much was it?

They gave me a free month. Oh, damn. And so that's why I went because they like emailed me to give like a free month. I imagine if it's like, if it's like $20. It's on class pass. Yeah. I don't know. I just wouldn't spend the money on something like that if I am not like. Yeah. Working out. A hundred percent.

I also do like really light weights, but it's on ClassPass. So if you have like extra ClassPass credits, really fun. And if you just like to fucking sweat. But yeah, they gave me a free month. So that's why I'm going like to post about it. But then they sent an email being like, so they've had weird things going on and like they don't want people filming in classes. Oh, I saw that. But I'm like,

I'm still going to film in class. Like I literally go in the corner and like, you can't see anyone else in my video. So it's fine. But I'm like, well, you gave me this free month to post, to post about it. So yeah. But you don't want me to film at all. Like, okay. But I do like sweating in there. Like it's a good Sunday activity. Yeah.

Fuck, dude. My foot is so itchy right now. I'm going to freak out. What's your favorite? My favorite of the week is the Abercrombie clearance section. I fucking love Abercrombie. I made a TikTok about this. I'm revamping my boyfriend's entire closet. He gave me full permission. Spring cleaning. That's a funny video. I know. So it's happening. And I don't like spending full price on...

Other people or me, I will do anything to find the clearance stuff if it's not for me. But I will make sure it's good quality, okay? So don't come for me. And Abercrombie stuff...

everything was like honestly like 40 plus percent off and on top of that like you can get a code from tiktok or whatever so it was like 200 for like six or seven shirts so and then i went to oh my god on top of my favorites of the week marshalls i got so much cute stuff at marshalls i was so surprised i have to go shopping so bad it's on my next little list of things is clothes shopping my entire i would say 90 of my wardrobe right now is white fox so bad um

My favorite, I just did a canned cocktail as a favorite, but I have another one that's a favorite that was a hit of the weekend. And it's not something you'd expect from me because I normally don't like espresso martinis. The Loverboy canned espresso martinis are so good.

so good and they are like rocket fuel um i was tweaking i was thinking about what i was gonna drink this week because i'm going to florida and we have a boat day coming up and we will go to the liquor store and stuff and i literally was thinking i was like i'm gonna buy those they're so good yeah like i normally like hate espresso martinis they're like they kind of taste like chocolate to me i don't know so good the can is two drinks per can they were like and i took a few sips

And I kind of felt like, whoa, like, I don't know, like the caffeine was in it. I don't know. But the caffeine was hidden. The alcohol was hidden. Like, I was just kind of like, that's the difference between me and you is I look. Oh, it didn't look. I would have looked it up. Well, like, I was just like, oh, like, I'm kind of feeling this. And I took a few sips and I gave it to someone to try. And then he's like, he looked one sip. And he's like,

it's kind of like what's in that and I was like okay it's not just me because I'm like kind of on one right now but they were a hit like I gave it to this other girl to try and she thought I was just giving it to her to have a sip yeah so she's like can I have more of this I was like oh you can have it I was like yours and she was like oh my god really I was like yep

Brought them for everyone to have. Yeah, I think I've... I could be wrong, but I feel like I've tried them before, but I can't remember. But like way, way, way back. I like the Cosmos too. That's what I've had on a boat is the little canned Cosmos cocktails. They're love, lover boy. Big, big fan. Any hot gossip for this week? Everyone's at Coachella.

I haven't, I'm avoiding Coachella TikTok at all costs. Really? Yeah. Why? Cause you're, you want to go? No, I just like, don't care for it. Oh, I feel that. I think I've seen interesting Coachella content. Like I love the Taylor and Travis at Coachella things. Um, cause they look really, really cute. Like she looks like she's having such a fun time and I have been not the biggest Swifty ever, but I like Taylor Swift and have followed Taylor Swift and her music since I was like

fucking 10 years old you know like went to a concert when i was 13 and in all that time of knowing taylor swift i've never seen her out in public like having fun at a music festival like that sounds like something she does i know and she's just like in the crowd in the vip section but just like in the crowd with her man drunk as fuck like in some of the videos do you think she's drunk yeah yeah yeah no she's like has drinks in her hand and she's like she looks a little

I would love to just know what she's like when she's drunk. Yeah, she's a little drunk. Does she, like, shit talk? Like, what does she do? I, like, can't picture her being a real person. I know. I feel like she's just, like, this little princess. Like, I can't imagine her, like, participating in gossip. Oh, but, like, she probably has the best gossip you've ever heard in your life. I know. But I can't imagine it. But, like, Travis is a big party guy. Yeah. Like...

They look like they were just having so much fun. Like, it was so cute. Everything else of Coachella was, I just saw shit of the music. But that's, like, all I've been seeing is everyone at goddamn fucking Coachella. I haven't been seeing anything else crazy in, like, the world. Neither have I. Maybe I'm just, like, oblivious and, like, not caught up. Oh, oh, yes, I do have something to say. The Golden Bachelor divorce.

Someone sent that to me and told me to talk about it, but I was like, I didn't even watch the Golden Crusher, so I don't even know who won. Okay, but regardless of who it was, how do you get married? And maybe this is me just being, what do people say, ageist? I'm just judging them because they're older. If you're that age and you found someone you liked, what's the point of getting divorced? Just ride it out with them. You like them? What are you going to do? Go...

Like, you found someone you like. It's because they don't live in the same place and they don't want to, like, move. One, you knew that going into this. Yeah. That's what you're doing. But, like, you're going to go through a divorce and, like, date again? Just, like, just vibe. Right. Like, at that point, really? I feel like if that's even at, like, 40, I'm going to be like, well, I'm just committing to this. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. You're, like, 70 years old. Just finish it out. Yeah, I agree. And it's just, like, well, I don't know what that, like, who lost or whoever, like,

was in the divorce, but it's like, what was their history with the other person that they were with before? Do you know? Like their ex? Yeah. What was the history with the ex? I'm pretty sure like both of their...

husband and wives like died. Oh, okay. I'm pretty sure. Cause I was going to say, if it's just like another fallout divorce, it's like, damn, like no, I'm from my perspective looking as an outsider. It's like, so the golden bachelor, the golden bachelor, his wife died. No, that for a fact, Teresa, the girl who won, I'm pretty sure also her husband died. Um,

So I would just finish it out. Like, oh, you have to do long distance. Okay, so now you're old and you get an excuse to travel every now and then. Like, I don't know, finish it out. Also, it's what we were saying before that I liked the Golden Bachelor because it seemed like people that actually wanted love and weren't doing this for clout, they've been using this for clout. So bad. More than the normal contestants. Dude, I'm not going to lie. I am a Golden Bachelor hater. I really am. I was such a lover of the show when it was on and ever since it finished. Yeah.

It's just, it's terrible. I made a TikTok. It's terrible. Recorded it. And I was so close to posting it. I wanted to post it. Just kind of like roasting on the golden bachelor. But I was like, fuck, I can't be one of those people. I can't be one of those people. It just, it had such a strong start in my opinion. Like, I think it was a really good idea, but I didn't know that the 70 year old people were going to be bigger clout chasing hoes than the 20 year olds. Yeah.

That just wasn't what I expected. I know. I just, I mean, personally, I didn't watch it, like I said, but watching it from an outsider's perspective, watching like this past bachelor season and seeing them like in the reunion, like jumping in front of the cameras, jumping onto the stage, like at the very end and like hugging everyone and like giving advice and stuff. I'm like, it just seems so extra. No, it really is. Like the show was really cute and heartwarming and they could have let it finish and left it there and never spoke about it again.

That's all I got to say. Because, like, it's people going on reality to be famous is cringe always. But going on reality to be famous at 70 years old is that's next level. Speaking of reality or just TV in general, you know what? I binge watched yesterday. You probably saw my story.

Vanderpump Rules. Oh. I did. I did not see that. Yeah. I binged it. The new season? I don't know if I'm done with the season or if I got more left. The new season is like still going on. Okay, then I'm caught up. I need to do that. Yeah. It's really fucking good. I need to do that. I'm still big on Summer House, but that's weekly. My boyfriend was sitting there watching it with me and I had to like...

Obviously, this is only the second season I've watched, so I'm not fully caught up on the history history, but it's pretty easy to get caught up on this stuff because they do the flashbacks in the episodes, and I explain it all to him, and he is...

so in it i'm like this is perfect timing because we're going to florida and we're gonna have like free time like at the end of the day is like to watch tv together so i was like catch up get into this because we're gonna be watching this all week together i want to watch it i think i kind of just want to watch it when it finishes though because i'm that kind of person and i feel like there's a by the time you start watching it it will probably be over there's like 10 episodes out already yeah i know there's a lot because they talk about it on like the podcast i listen to so i've heard some things that happen so i'm already kind of like i'm up to date almost what happens in the show because they'll talk about it but i haven't watched it

it okay can i talk about it in the sense of i'm not going to put any spoilers out there yeah because i know kind of what is going on okay so in my opinion i think they are being too mean to raquel no sandoval is his name so you think they're being too mean to him yeah crazy take i just think like cut him some slack every two seconds they're like

You haven't given him an apology. He gives an apology every episode. I'm like, how many more apologies do you want from him? Who are you saying is that coming from? Lala. Okay. Shayna. I'm like, I get it from Ariel. Ariel's fucking... Ariana. Ariana, whatever her fucking name is. She's going to be the new Love Island host. You know that? Okay. I think...

She... Yeah, I guess. But I think she kind of needs to move on. No, so... Like, get out of that fucking house. She needs to get out of the house, which I think they... Yeah, I think that's like... I'm not cut up to that point yet. I think she is getting up to the house. But... She needs to get out of the house. That's so weird. It's like the fact that they have so much hatred, which, yeah, he's a piece of shit, but I agree. They should hate... He is a piece of shit. He's like crazy and weird. Like, even without the cheating, he's kind of a fucking weirdo. Yeah, he is weird. But I just think... She has gotten...

oh my god, her life is amazing. She's so rich. She's so famous. She's at every possibility ever. Like, they should just, like, not really give a fuck. I know. That's what I think. And obviously, I get it's hard that they're in the same friend group, but just from what I've seen with his, like, mental health and, like, him talking about, like, not wanting to, you know, be on this planet anymore, I'm like, you need to cut him some slack. Like, yes, he's a shitty fucking person. He doesn't need to be a friend anymore, but, like,

Stop fucking going at him every two seconds. He breathes and they attack him. I'm like, oh my god. I think they should just let it go. Yeah, I agree. Because at the end of the day, Ariana's...

got the most opportunities she's ever had in her entire life yeah you need to watch it so you can kind of like see because even my boyfriend sitting there was watching this like why are they being so mean to him like i get like what he did but like cut him some slack i'm like i agree i think it's because also like regard like i said regardless of that like he sucks yeah so they just like no 100 because it does suck because i think it's different they'd be nicer if it was like damn like we really really really liked this guy

and like and then he did this bad thing i think it'd be easier to be graceful but i think it's when it's like oh my god you've always sucked and now you suck more they'd like hate them and there's like there's so much history with all those people friend group is so toxic like in the middle because they're not really like friend group they're co-workers yeah in the middle of the fucking episode one of them i'm not gonna say who because i don't want to spoil it for you guys but one of them literally hooks up with their ex's best friend and then two seconds later is like yelling at sandoval for something he did i'm like you

You just did something just, like, not as bad, but, like, bad. I'm like, how are you? That's the other issue is they're all, like, cheaters. Yeah, they're all cheating and, like, mingling within the group. So I'm like, how can you even sit here and talk about what he's done, which obviously is fucking bad and won't compare to anything else that they've done, but, like, zip it. You're also not a fucking good person. Yeah, they should zip it and, like, take the high road. Yeah. Like, leave him alone to be a loser with his loser band. I know. Like, just leave him alone to be a loser. Yeah. That's what I would do. 1,000%.

would agree yeah no i'll have to watch it because like i said i'm like when i watch summer house it makes me want to watch a shit ton of bravo yeah and i've also been watching which i've caught up on beverly hills um like the realest wife beverly hills i don't know which one to watch next because like i've never been like jersey jersey well i only know jersey's like iconic i love jersey

I like Jersey because you know how like normally real housewives are just like random fucking people like who like don't really have connection to each other. A lot of people in Jersey are like family. Okay. So it's like the reason I like the Beverly Hills. It's like real drama. Like I want drama that's real. Like,

Because half the time on these shows, people are fighting. I'm like, you guys don't even know each other. Yeah. Like, get out. But I like watching Jersey because I'm like, oh, wait, this is like real family drama. Like, we're talking about real fucking shit because that's your brother. Yeah. Like, and that I find interesting. Just an iconic one. And then, like, people go to prison. Oh, shit. Love when people go to jail. What was the fucking girl? I think she was on The Real Housewives of New Jersey. Teresa? I think it was Teresa. Teresa Giudice? Yeah.

Teresa Giudice and Taylor Swift took a picture together at Coachella. So random. Yes, Teresa. I remember her. Teresa went to prison. See, it's funny because my mom used to watch this when I was a kid. Yeah. Like she would watch Beverly Hills and now that I'm seeing Teresa, she definitely watched the New Jersey one. So it's just funny because it's...

Obviously, a show that's been going on for so long. Yeah, no. I don't know what season you'd want to start on, but it's definitely interesting when they're going to present. Probably last year, honestly. I don't know how they are in recent times. I only know what they were like when my mom was watching it. Yeah. Another random thing that I watched, not this past week, but maybe two weeks ago, was the Jersey Shore documentary for Mike the Situation on, I want to say Hulu.

But it was really fucking good. Like if you were ever a Jersey Shore gal or guys listening, watch that documentary. It was really good. Interesting. Yeah. I don't think I've watched anything else very interesting lately. Yeah, I've been watching a lot.

Clock hits five o'clock. I make dinner and then I sit my ass on the couch and do not move till about nine 30 and then go to bed. I finished the Fosters and I've started, there's like a spinoff of the Fosters that I just started, but I'm so pissed. I finished the Fosters. Um, cause I was just so into it and I'm so pissed that I'm done. It's so upsetting when you finish a show, it's just can't watch it anymore. Or like when there's like a cliffhanger and you're like, fuck, why is the drama got to be in next season? This one had a good wrap up.

but like I kind of wish there was more but they do have the spin-off so there is kind of more um but yeah that was really upsetting to finish I haven't really been watching anything else or reading I need to get back into reading it's just like I'm gonna I read so much last year that it's like been hard for me to get into it again because I read so much uh I haven't read a book that's like so good in a long time so go to my Instagram tell me a book that's so good and if you if you tell me a bad book like I'm literally gonna block you

I think, speaking of burnout, I think burnout's a real thing. And I hope I don't get burnt out with running. But I don't think I will get burnt out with running. I don't think you will. You're kind of a fucking track star. I know. I'm literally the opposite. We'll talk about it in our weekend recap. But I literally went on two runs that were so short. And one of them, I'm still so down bad. It broke me. I want to go on a really, really, really long run tomorrow. But I don't know how far. I couldn't relate to anything less. Yeah.

But our week recap, where should we start? Well, my weekend kind of started in the middle of the week because I went to two back-to-back concerts. I went to two back-to-back concerts. I went to Tyler Childers and I went to Tim McGraw. So happy about it. It's my year of concerts. So it's my fourth concert of the year. And then...

I just think I have more to go to that are in the works. I think I'm going to Georgia next month for a concert. If all goes as planned, I'm just stoked about it. And so funny. It was, I went with my ex-boyfriend's friend. Wait, what? So I went, so she posted, she was like, I really want to go to Tyler Childers. Like who wants to come? And I was like, I will literally go with you. Cause mind you, I hung out with these people a lot. I'm like, I will literally go with you, but you keep it on the DL. And she was like, LOL. Like I'll literally block her from my story. Like, yeah, let's go. Cause she really likes country music. And she was like,

And then we found out he was there at the same time. His SBA didn't see us. I did see that he was there. Yeah, but I was like, oh my God, he was there. How awkward would that have been? And then literally for Tim McGraw,

She was like, oh, look, I told so-and-so to come, like another one of his friends. I was like, you're going to get me in trouble. I'm like, I can't be out with all of you guys. But she just really likes country music. I really, really, really wanted to go to Tyler Childers, but the one friend I have that would have come wasn't in town. She was like, fuck, I'd go, but I'm not there. So when she posted, like, oh, I want to go, the tickets were cheap, I was like, I desperately want to go and literally will go with you. And then at that show, I was like, I really want to go to Tim McGraw.

And then, so this guy, like two, like a month ago, went on like two dates with him. He was like, you should come to Tim McGraw with me, whatever. Like kept talking to me about this concert. I kind of stopped talking to him. But like still every now and then I'd be like, oh, we're going to concert. We're going to go to concert. We walk into the concert. The first person I see standing there with a girl at the Tim McGraw concert. Band is on a mission to find a girlfriend. It was...

A very awkward encounter, I'm not gonna lie, but it was very funny. Like, I was literally telling the girl I was with about this story about how this guy was asking me to go to the concert. We're walking, she's like, is that literally him? And I was like, oh. He, like, basically shoved this girl into the girl's bathroom and, like... Wait, what? Well, like, she was going into the bathroom and he was waiting outside the girl's bathroom and, like, my friend was going into the bathroom. So, like, he, like, we were both waiting for them outside the bathroom. Oh, God. Yeah.

But it was just very funny. And he was like, what section are you in? I'm like, 206. And he was like, oh, we're 207. I was like, have a great time. Damn. It was like awkward. I'm like, how many girls did you ask to come to this with you? Yeah.

So awkward. But Tim McGraw was so good. It was actually life-changing. So yeah, it was a tiring two days, but it was very fun to go to both those concerts. It was very, very fun. Nice. I feel like my week too. I fucking ate out every single day from, I think, Tuesday all the way up until Sunday. I've been eating out a lot too. And it's bad, but...

Most of them were free because two of them were brand things and then one of them...

I can't even remember. But there's just been so many like brand events here in Austin and they've been a lot of fun to go to. I feel like I've been meeting so many other creators here, which is always a plus. I love like the little networking type vibes because when you do that, it makes going to events more enjoyable. So I was able to do that. Got to meet Kendra Scott, Miss Kendra Scott, which was cool. Oh yeah, that looked really, really cool. It was really cool. Was she nice? Super nice. Super bubbly. Super talkative. Talked to her for like two seconds and then I dipped because I was like, I'm fine.

The day I realized Kendra Scott was like a

Like young woman. Like, like, I don't know. I didn't realize like that Kendra Scott was just like a lady. Yeah. Until like a few years ago. And like, I was like, Oh, what? It was literally mind blowing to me. Funny. Cause it was perfect timing. Cause last week I got that jewelry for my boyfriend. So I told her, I was like, I just want you to know your men's line elite, literally elite, like need more of the men's stuff. Yeah. So I think it's called Scott, Scott bros, Scott bros. Yeah. Oh, that's kind of cute. Yeah.

But it's like in the store. I think it's on the website too. Yeah, it is in the store. They always have a little section of the men's stuff. Yeah. But yeah, and then all the way up to the weekend, or on Thursday, I went to another brand dinner. This one was cool. The brand dinner that I went to was with a media agency, and they had invited out only a select few influencers, but then the rest was just...

girls that live in Austin but are like a part of the marketing on a bunch of brands so there was like a bunch of brands but girls that are in the marketing for them and then we were all just like shooting the shit like talking about like being an influencer and what they do behind the scenes and like things that they're looking for and just all that type of stuff so it was just like cool and motivating to like talk about that type of stuff that is fun I like going to brand events and talking to the people that like work for the things

Yeah, a lot of brands, too, that I didn't realize had, like, offices here. I was like, oh, there's an office here? So many of them. I was like, I had no idea. So many of them. Yeah. Fucking everyone's in Austin. I know. Friday, because I had those two concerts back-to-back and had, like, late nights. I didn't drink at the concerts at all, but they're just tiring. I was like, I am doing nothing on this Friday, and I haven't done nothing on a Friday in many weeks now. Like, Fridays have been...

just full of shit in the city. But I was like, I need to literally do nothing this Friday or else I'll die. Cause my past two days were such like late days. So I finally had a Friday where I did fucking nothing. Yeah. I had, I was getting my hair done that day and one of my friends is a hairdresser. And for the longest time I've been wanting her to do my hair. But when we first became friends, she only really specialized in blondes. So I was just like, okay, like whatever, you don't have to do it. And then she's recently built up like some brunette clients and,

So then I finally asked her, I was like, can you please start doing my hair? Like, please. She's like, of course. I was like, okay, fuck yeah. Like, let's do it. And I'm super simple. Like, I know like back in the summer, I got a little bit of a balayage. Fucking regret it. I'm never putting bleach in my hair ever again. But I just do glossing. So it's super easy. Like, anyone can do it. Like, fucking you could do it. She told me I could do it. She was like, do you want me to give you the toner? And like, you can do it at home. I go, no, I'll just come here. I literally told her, I was like, I'm going to start coming here.

every month and a half because she charged me so cheap. So I was like, I'll come here every month and a half, just a nice little fresh up. And so went to go get my hair done.

And then after that, we just went to get some food and drinks after. And then pretty much just... Oh, and so we went to Bambino, which is a new place. I've passed that place. Dude, yeah. Pass it all the time. If you go to Lift ATX, you'll pass it. It's right across the street from Lift ATX. What kind of food is it? Pizza? It's like... Yeah, like Italian food pizza. Because they have like garlic bread and Caesar salads, mozzarella sticks. Oh, man. I'm so hungry. Shut up. I know. And like caprese, like stuff like that. So...

But it's one of those places where you order at the counter. So we ordered at the counter. I got a drink and it was so good. It was like this Aperol Spritz, but mint. I don't even know how to explain it, but it was so good. Like a mint julep? Yeah, something. I don't even know what it was. I don't even know what a mint julep is. I don't know. I'm just going with it. But it was so good. And then...

We were all kind of like fucking chit-chatting. So I was like, let's just go back to my house because I literally live like pretty close. So we went back, hung out, and then it felt so good to just be in bed by like 10 p.m. My boyfriend actually was out. He had parked his car somewhere.

at my house because he was like i want to sleep over after like i thought we were doing our own things for like a little bit and then he was like oh i'm at latchkey i was like oh it's it's one of those nights like i'm thinking like he's coming home back to my place like after a beer or two so i'm like fuck latchkey i go why the fuck did i agree to this because now there's like

drunk man is just gonna come crawling into my bed and annoy the shit out of me i was like fuck and he's gonna smell like booze and like i just didn't want it i was like i was like dude i didn't realize this is what the vibe was for you tonight he's like funny he's like i thought i told you i was like oh fuck so i like i stayed up a little bit and then i ended up like passing out pretending i was asleep and he walks in the house and he's making so much noise i'm like

And then he just starts jumping on top of me and like, get out of here. I don't want you here. But then he fell asleep. I forgot to say that on Friday too. And like the theme of my whole weekend was basically just active. Like I went on such a long walk. I said it last week. We have this like 10 K step, like loop. So like woke up, got 10 K steps, like went to the gym and like tanned a little bit, but I've just been working out like a motherfucker, like not even working out, like walking like a motherfucker. So like, that's also what I did on Friday is literally walk and fucking workout. Um, and then Saturday, um,

um i went on a fucking run fucking awful brutal wanted to kill myself but like i felt like i did something productive after went on a run and then walked so far like we finished the run um same i think i said last week that i went oh no i said that on tiktok whatever i was like with a boy we finished the run and like i'm like wait let's get food like we hadn't really eaten and

And I was like, have you ever had the Italian sandwich from home slice? He's like, no, let's go get it. So then from fucking lady bird, we walked all the way down South Congress to get this sandwich. So it's a $30 sandwich, but you can split it between two people, but it's $30 for one sandwich. Okay. It's fucking expensive. Ridiculous. Yeah. But you can split it. So it's fine. So fucking good. Like this sandwich. I dream about it every day. It was so good. Um,

And literally got like 20,000 steps like walked the entire fucking city in the morning and then because that like literally tired me the fuck out and then like between that and like I went to a pregame and like went out at night and.

With some people, when I drank those espresso martinis and they were so good. And then we went out on West. I thought I was going to go to East that night. And it was like, I thought we were going to go to East and I haven't been out on East like to latch here or anything in so long. I was like, oh, East is fun. Then we fucking went to West. But it is what it is. It was fine. But yeah, it was fine. It was weird because you know what I'm saying? I was like been really lightweight and getting really hung over. Yeah. Saturday I was like heavyweight central. I like kept drinking and like it wasn't getting drunk. Interesting. Yeah. I was like.

What the fuck is going on? Because recently I've been like a few drinks have been like absolutely destroying me. They were fucking going down and like nothing was getting me drunk, which I mean was like a good thing. I honestly felt the same kind of on Saturday, but like not really. It's so funny. So Saturday, Saturday went to a sales meeting.

Yes. That I was literally talking to someone about matcha martinis and like how we should go there and then we didn't end up going. And then I saw your story that you were there drinking a matcha martini. Yeah. Oh my God. I literally was just, I was trying to get everyone to go there. Yeah. So I,

Saturday, what did I do all day? Oh, I went shopping on South Congress with one of my girlfriends on Saturday. Two Hands. I've been going there every weekend to Two Hands. I don't know what it is, but I got to stop doing it. Went to Two Hands, was walking around a shit ton, thought I was going to get some shopping done, but couldn't find anything I liked. Then I went home and I had a dinner reservation at that sushi place with my boyfriend. Did not at all think I was going out, but then we're sitting there and he's texting his friends and he has friends in town. He's like, they really want to meet you. And I'm like,

Stop putting this obligation on me. Like, but okay. Like, I guess we'll do that. And I get one espresso martini at dinner and I'm like, this fucking didn't do anything. Let's go to Estelle's. I know Estelle's has like really strong drinks. Get the, another espresso martini at Estelle's. So I'm two drinks in at this point. Still not really feeling anything, bro. That matcha martini for the third drink that I got, I was drunk. I was like, what the fuck? It just hit me like a wall. Like I thought I was, I thought it was fine. I thought it was like not going to get drunk off this third one. Um,

And then it was funny being at Estelle's it's,

The vibes are just different. You're dressed up there. It's very, very nice. It's private. In order to get upstairs, you have to have your name. And there's a big bodyguard standing at the bottom of the stairs. You know the guy that does the Airbnb for the Airbnb we stayed at? Yeah. He walked in there with a bunch of people and went up there. And I just started a bunch of people that I knew going up there. I'm like, fuck. I want to do a night like this up there and wear cocktail dresses and look cute. We need to do that soon.

But yeah, it's like a club vibe upstairs and then open public bar downstairs. And then we... I'm surprised we didn't... Where did you go on West? I went to... Where did I start? Oh my God, we went to Kung Fu, which I've only been to once. Kind of fun though because they have games. Okay. So kind of fun. And then...

one of our friends is obsessed with key bar so she's like let's go to key bar make everyone go to key bar but then we went in there for two seconds and then realized that half the group split up and all went to devil make hair so we went to devil make hair and this is how i know i'm fucking heavyweight because i had a full-ass drink at devil make hair and didn't even get drunk devil make hair drinks are fucking strong so when i got it i was like you know what like i haven't been really get like this weird thing i haven't really been getting drunk this drink is gonna fucking do it yeah

Interesting. And then we went to Cat's Pajamas, but it was so packed that we left instantaneously. And then I went to Wiggle Room. Every now and then there's just people that just like to go there. Yeah. Only time I've ever been there was when we went to the Bar Crawl. Yeah, I went there again. It was fine. It was a good vibe. It was packed. And then I saw some of our other friends there, which was always nice when you run into people. But yeah, we went to...

Random places. Interesting. It's weird. I was with people I didn't really know. So when it's like, we're going to go to Kung Fu and Devil May Here, I'm like, that's where you go if you go out on West. Interesting. Yeah, very interesting. I went to Parlor in New York because the UFC fight was on. Correct. So Little Woody's, we were going to go there. The fucking line is wrapped around the corner for the wrestling, what is it? Wrestling? Fucking kickbox? I don't even know what the fuck it is. Kickbox.

UFC. It's like MMA. Yeah, MMA, whatever it is. So wrapped around the corner. So we're like, okay, we're going to go to the parlor in your yard. Go there. Also line really long, but was kind of moving quickly. Go in there. I'm not even kidding you guys. I would say the girl to guy to ratio, like,

and every like 15th man there was a girl there was no girls there and I was like I don't want to be here like I'm here with my boyfriend and then some of our guy friends like my friends but then he also had his like college friends that were in town also there so it was just like sausage fest I was like I'm wearing

I'm wearing a dress too. Like I thought I was going on a date night. Like you don't wear a dress to West. Like you just don't. Or at least... I was wearing a dress. No, okay. I take that back. Certain dresses you can wear, but then there's certain dresses you can't really wear. And...

I'm just like I I feel like I'm so out of place I'm wearing fucking heels like I yeah I was wearing a dress and cowgirl boots yeah like you can wear like casual dress vibes I was wearing heels so I was like I can't be here I need to go home so I told him I was like I and I got a freaking ranch water disgusting so I gave him the drink back because he bought it I'm like here take your drink back I'm ubering home and which fun fact uber what the fuck 40 45 dollars to go home I live like

not like not too far to the point where it should be $45 for me to Uber home. It's never been that much. So if it's ever that, make sure you make a Lyft account. And in the moment you can switch over to Lyft. Go look at the price over there. It was $12 to get home. I'm saying I have the funniest tea that I learned this weekend. What? So, you know, when there was that like really hot guy, that's like kind of famous from the gym that I was hanging out with. Yeah. It literally looks like Chris Brown. He's so he's an Uber driver.

shut the fuck up so this man there was this really really hot guy at the gym would like never date him ever like not that vibe at all I literally just wanted to like you're picking up what I'm putting down okay hung out with him like once we see each other we'll hang out with him like twice whatever like nothing serious but this man's like kind of famous and like anytime we'd hang out it'd always be like late at like he'd always just be talking about all this work he's doing like no like he can't until this time because he has this like

All this fucking work. And he like is like a rapper, but he's like an act, whatever bullshit. I didn't care. Not my business, but he's always like working, working, working. My friend texts me a screenshot at night, uh,

being like so i get she sends me this long voice memo and at first i panic because it's like one in the morning and she just sent a screenshot of her uber it was a lift and like my instant thought was she was sending it to me as in like she feels unsafe and was sending me the lift info so i was like oh my god like why is she sending me a picture of this lift like is she dying in this lift so when i play the voice memo i see the picture of the driver and i was like you

fucking lying and i was literally i immediately call her and i was literally like here at my apartment like with a dude and i'm like like literally freaking out i'm like wait you're lying she's like no no that he was like hitting on her and like god was like oh like what's your instagram like all this stuff and like this guy's like what are you talking about i was like nothing very important but just don't worry about it so this man is a lyft driver so like he's not really a rapper i

I mean, he makes music for fun. But why, like... He makes music for fun. He is an actor. He's on TV and, like, is an actor, but he's a Lyft driver. Men like that that are just super into social media and, like, rapping and, like... It's disgusting. Bro, like, you don't hustle. Like, yes, you are hustling because you're Ubering, but, like, don't cap and act like it's, like, your full-time gig. Because he kept being, like, that he has, like, these, like, meetings or that, like, these, like, he's trying to, like, start these own businesses. Like, no, I think every time you said you were busy, you were...

doing lift yeah i mean which would make sense because it was late night like what the fuck are you doing late night meetings yeah like which again i didn't care because this wasn't someone i was like date like dating at all yeah so didn't really fucking matter to me but why not just be like yeah i only act like you know they only film once a year so the rest of the time to make money i drive lift i would have been like okay

you know so weird to be like a liar that is very fucking weird so i just thought that that was really funny speaking of ubers also fucking crazy have you ever been in the same uber more than once because i have and i was blown away when i like two weeks later got in the same uber car and i was like there's no fucking way oh my god that's nuts so nuts crazy crazy um

I wish I got the same Uber twice because our Uber to the concert guy was a legend. The line to get to turn left to go to Moody Center, of course, so backed up. This guy was like driving on the shoulder, made an illegal U-turn to go around all the people. Oh, I love people like that. We were like, let's go, bro. Like, way to go. I would be that Uber. Way to get...

Get shit done. He was like, yeah, I wasn't waiting and all that. And I'm like, yeah. I was like, oh, I wish I could request Ubers because guess what? Leaving here is going to be a bitch and I wish you could come pick us up. I know. Why don't they give a business card and let us do it on the side? I wish you couldn't request that. That'd be so illegal. Yeah. Because he could easily kidnap you. Yeah, no, but I wish in the Uber app you could be like... Oh, request them? But it ended up... So the girl I went with lives at an apartment complex close to the Moody Center so we were able to walk back. Hence why, again, I've been walking like an animal because I've just been...

walking everywhere oh i saw our friends leaving tyler childers too so funny friend i saw um uh dave and his girl oh oh yeah yeah i saw them on the side i didn't know that they oh actually i didn't know that they were going yeah it was so funny like i didn't expect to see them see them because there's so many people at the moody center but the second i walked out i was like look who it is austin so small man so small um but yeah saturday i did go out and like surprisingly like i was just so heavyweight i don't know what got into me

Yeah, I, like I said, went home and he stayed out. And I was just like, there honestly really is nothing better than being in such a secure relationship where you can leave him at the bars. My past relationship, if you ever thought that I would leave him at the bars and go home, in your fucking dreams. Yeah, listen to things our exes did and we stayed to hear how Sam dated the worst men that have literally ever existed. Yeah, like I would have never, I would be by his hip out of insecurity and fright that he would cheat on me. Yeah, if you went home, you'd be like crying. Yeah, 100%.

like it's just crazy and it's all I don't know I'm just in such like a healthy like stable relationship also phones like I've never like thought of like needing to go through his phone he's never like he did it once but to be fair it's it's it's game like it's fine but outside of that it's like I think if you went through his phone you wouldn't find him cheating you would just find things in that group chat of boys that you like just don't

want to read yeah like nothing about me but like nothing about you nothing about other girls i just feel like going through like his text messages or something would just be like not what you wanted to i know they have a group chat of i think maybe 15 to 20 men see and that's not a place i want to be and yeah they talk in that thing all fucking day and the way i've been around this group of boys for instance just like example of what i'm talking about what i'm saying you might see things or read things you don't want to see

We went a few months ago, went to Airbnb. So Sam's boyfriend and his best friend were there and we're changing into bathing suits to go in the hot tub. And I was under the impression that we weren't going to change in that moment. And they just go, Taylor, look over here. This man literally pulled down his pants and bent over. Not her boyfriend's friend, just full ass to my face. I'm sorry. What? That was like the second time I met this person also. So yeah, for context. So that's just the kind of shit when I'm saying that, like if you went through his phone, like

I feel like there'd be weird shit in there. There probably would be. Yeah. Yeah, probably. But also, like, they all fucking talk about sports, sports, sports, sports, sports. Oh, my God, this game's on today. What are you guys betting? I'm like, you guys are obsessed with just sports and betting. It's insane to me. Yeah. Men are so bad. But also, we could do roles reverse, too, of, like, he probably would hate to go through our girls' group chat.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, but we like... It's different. Yeah. It's different. Men are stupid. Men are so stupid. But what we say has like value. I know. Like betting on a sports game, that's just you being dumb. I know. Thank God I have no addiction to betting on sports. Yeah. I'd lose so much money probably. Yeah, this guy I'm talking to told me he used to be literally addicted to gambling. And I was like, that's bad. Yeah.

But he's not anymore. Yeah. Oh. But I'm like, that's really not good at all. I'm glad you got over that. Like, that he used to, like, bet on, like, every single game and was, like, actually in debt over it. I'm like, yeah, it's really not fucking good. Like, but it's so normal. It is. It's, like, so normal for men to be addicted to gambling. I know. My grandfather was. So bad. My mom talks about it a lot. Oh. Yeah. She, like, doesn't want my, like, we'll go to, like, resorts. My mom will be like, boy, stop fucking betting. Stop, like, betting.

Your grandfather was addicted. My brother's like, Mom, we're fine. It's just when we're on vacation. That's how it starts. Yeah, you never know. Actually, you're right. My brother's actually fucking sucky gambling. Like, last time we went on vacation together, my brother was up, like, $700. And I was like, Brian, pull out, pull out. Like, $700 is a lot to him. Like, a lot. Like, he would survive...

a while with his nights out with $700. So you can get so many white claws for $700. Anytime my brother's broke, he'll fucking call me drunk and be like, Sam, vent on me. I'm out of money for my beers. I'm out of beer money. I'm going to see them tomorrow. I love being the younger sibling. That was me to my family. So your whole family's going on this trip? Whole family. Sam's going on a vacation. Yeah. Including all plus ones besides Brian.

Cute. Brian doesn't have any significant other. Whoa. I just burped into the camera. I don't burp. That was weird. I've never heard you burp. I don't know what that was. Whoa. Yeah, I don't know what that was. But yeah, starting tomorrow, I'm in Florida. So fun. Yep. Been going there since I was literally an infant. Baby child.

So fun. Sunday, I, since I forgot what we were even fucking supposed to be talking about. Sunday morning. Sunday morning, I went to the best place ever. I got Veracruz breakfast tacos and an Alfred's coffee. So fucking bomb. Again, walked a stupid amount and then, you know, usual Sunday reset. And I went to Corp Hour. But Sunday reset vibes. That's just like all I do on a Sunday. If you need me, I'm getting fucking coffee somewhere and then...

I'm cleaning my apartment. That's it. Yeah. I was going to go to Barry's, but my dumb ass thought it would be a good idea to book it in the morning. And by the time I wanted to go book it, it was sold out. So couldn't go. And they don't do them until very late on Sundays either. I think. Yeah. There's not that many. Well, I wanted to go in the morning. Yeah. I wanted to go in the morning, like right when I woke up, but.

It's fine. I went on a nice long walk, dragged my boyfriend along with me, then went to grocery shopping and then had the Whole Food Top Bar. I'm obsessed with the Whole Food Top Bar. I've been having it like once or twice a week. I need to go get that because I can walk there now. It's so fucking good. The one thing that I love, they always have Brussels sprouts, slay, favorite thing. But then they also always do a different flavored salad.

chicken thigh but they leave the skin on the chicken thigh and it's crispy juicy so good i might have to get that like tomorrow yeah i've been buying food out a lot well i've been eating out a lot because like sometimes there's a boy paying for it it's like um but also i've been buying food because groceries are so goddamn fucking expensive that literally i don't think it's making a difference in my wallet

I got a few things at the grocery store the other day. Spend like 60 bucks. Dude, groceries nowadays, so expensive. That's why I'm just... Sometimes I just buy dinner because I'm like... Yeah. Like, if I go buy a couple things, I'm going to spend 60 bucks. I might as well just spend 20 bucks. Yeah, but you just got to be careful where you're going to get food. No, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, the fucking place below you. Oh, so expensive. Or not below you, somewhere. Um...

Everything is so expensive, but I can get away with going to Sweet Greens and getting a $12 bowl. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, but the grocery stores are just so expensive that you might as well buy fucking food. I know. It's crazy. I am actually because I am going on vacation tomorrow. I don't have groceries. I am eating out tonight. But the reason I'm doing that is because I'm going to buy two of whatever I'm getting, and then I'm taking that other one with me

On the airplane tomorrow for my dinner. CEOs over here of bringing food to travel. Because, like, I don't like having a lot of, like, leisure time between getting to the airport and getting on the plane. So I would prefer to just have my dinner or breakfast or snack, whatever, with me. So that way I don't have...

The stress of having to go in wait in line to grab food because one it's so much more expensive and two like you're just taking extra weight off your shoulders of like oh my god we have to do X Y Z when we get to the airport. I like just being like go right in and get on that plane. Food in the airport is kind of trash. It is. Honestly the Austin airport though is not super bad. Like they do have like a good amount of like locally owned like restaurants in there.

I can't even remember how long I've been doing that, though, bringing something. I think it's honestly been for, like, the last four years where I bring something of any sort on the airplane. Always. Yeah. Every single time. So that's what I'll be doing tonight. Going to go get some sweet greens and just put it into my...

fridge for tomorrow. And I'll save my sweet greens to order right now because I've been obsessed with it. And that's another thing that I've been getting a lot. So I'll do kale and quinoa. And then I'll do chicken. I do goat cheese, pickled onions. Goat cheese and a sweet green. Oh, yeah, baby. Fucking I'll eat goat cheese in anything. Okay. Pickled onions. And then they have banana peppers, olives, all pickled things, honestly. And then...

I'll change up like the fourth one depending on what's looking good, whether it's carrots, cabbage, or tomatoes. And then you have to get the hot – it's a new dressing right now, the hot mustard vinaigrette. It's so good. I'll have to go. Yeah. Very fucking good. Yum. I know. But yeah, that's about it. That's literally about it. Like when I tell you 70% of my weekend was spent walking. That's all I did. Like today I have 11,000 steps and I'm going on a walk later.

I'm just downtown, baby. I don't really drive. I've been downtown three times today. Like, coming downtown, going home, coming back downtown. That's so annoying. Three fucking times. I mean, I kind of like it because I'm like, fuck, I'm so productive right now. And then, like, go home real quick, had lunch. I could have stayed here, but I was like, no. Save the money, Sam. You're eating out tonight. I got my nails done today. Yeah. Don't they look cute? They do. Where'd you go? I don't know.

I went where we used to go under our old apartment building actually oh really I walked over there nice yeah the girl I went to go get um coffee with today was complimenting my nails saying like they're so close to your cuticles and like whatever I was like I would offer this place to you but it's not downtown and you don't have a car you're visiting so I don't think you want I did a good job and like I have my natural nails back and they're so long yeah love

love love love anyways so what i said that we should talk about today is just because um it did a lot of good discourse on tiktok um like i wasn't expecting the video to get so many views but people seemed very called out and people seemed like um they really needed to hear it so i thought y'all needed to hear it and it's just those basic like does this man actually fucking like you and basically what i said on the tiktok was that it was so simple yet um

made a lot of people I think like fuck that if a man fucking likes you he'll hang out with you and like if he uses the word busy too much he doesn't like you like when a man's like I'm busy I'm busy everyone's busy he doesn't like you yeah he doesn't like you if he says that he's busy and he doesn't hang out with you he like actually couldn't care if you live or died sorry

Yeah, I agree. I guess busy is like a red flag of a word when they say it all the time and they don't want to hang out with you. But I wrote down just random things, which I think what you said about how like when you started dating your boyfriend, it was literally like he like didn't.

Like, he, like, wasn't trying to date you. And then it was, like, kind of, like, instantly. And, like, the differences and things that he did before and after are, like, noticeable. And he's a good, like, case study. He is a good case study. Or if he does or doesn't like you. Yeah. Kind of, like, background before we get into this. So, me and my boyfriend, before we started dating, he was my sneaky link for about three months before things started to get kind of official. And it was, like, fucking, like...

a struggle just to like go out with him or like hang out with him and like around the three month mark I was like oh my god I think I have feelings for him I want to try to hang out with him outside of like a drunk setting because he was just my sneak link all we were doing was hooking up and it was like a flip of the switch once like we started to get to know each other a little bit more like

And things changed. I was like, fuck, he does like me. Cause like, I would always question. I'm like, does he like me? Does he like me? Does he like me? And it was flip of the switch, like obsessed over me. Well, I think it's that other thing of if you're questioning it, he doesn't. Yeah. You know, if you're like, I don't know if this guy is into me like that, then he's not. Yeah. Which I say that with every relationship thing. If you're questioning, like, I don't know if he wants to date me. I don't know if we should break up. Then like, that's your answer. Cause when you know, like you'll know everything. Like if it's a question, like,

Like, anytime if someone comes to me for boy advice and they're like, but I don't know. I'm like, the fact that, like, you don't know. But the thing is, like, even with my situation, like, you would, like...

You could have told me the same thing of like, yeah, he's not into you. Like move on. He wasn't, but he came around. Okay. But like I didn't. And because I stayed around, he's now my boyfriend. I think that that's rare. It is. No, trust me. It is so fucking rare. And let me tell you that. Let me, this is what I think actually in perfect advice, I would tell you, but this is hard.

to do, because I don't, I'm not good at, like, dating multiple people. I would tell you to, like, keep your options open. 100%. That's what I was doing. That's what you were doing. Yeah. I was fucking out on the town. You could keep him around, but keep your options open if he's not showing you that he likes you. Yeah. You don't have to kick him to the curb if, like, you have other things going on. But, like, keep your options open. Yeah. I agree. Because he's not giving you time of day. Yeah. And also, I feel like it does depend case to case on the guy based on their...

dating history like at least for me I feel like he probably would have been so into it right away if he hadn't just got out of another relationship like a week before we started yeah yeah yeah that's like he was fresh out of a breakup and like mentally like emotionally I don't think could have yeah so it took him a little bit more time yeah to figure that out so but in terms of other guys who like are not in that situation if they if you're sleeping with someone and they only hang out with you

in like a room and like in your bed to sleep with you and you never do anything else they don't like you yeah they don't so simple it's really so simple um so i feel like there's little things if you're sleeping because like the difference between people that i've been with that like i literally don't like them and they don't like me versus people that like clearly obviously like you there's like clear things and i think the biggest one is like hanging around in the morning yeah

Yeah. If they hang around in the morning, like... You go get... Did you go get breakfast? Yeah. You're in love. Sorry. He fucks with you. He fucks with you hard. Like, when you wake up and you do, like, five seconds of small talk and they're just like, so should I call you an Uber? Yeah. They don't want you around. They don't want you around. Or, like, if they wake up and borderline leave while you're, like, still sleeping, they don't like you. Yeah. I'm, like...

Like thinking about that, like so happy I'm in a relationship and don't have to fucking deal with that shit. Yeah. Like they don't like you if they're just like peacing out in the morning or like, or right when you wake up, they're like, Hey, I'll drive you home. Yeah. Like, sorry. Unless you're like, Hey, take me home. Like I need to go somewhere. No. The other like biggest thing fucking ever, which we had like a friend recently dealing with this is,

a man if you are in public should be showing physical affection you had that issue for a little bit didn't you yeah and people are like well he's just not into PDA they don't have to make out with you in public but like hold your hand put like their hand on your back like I think it should be obvious that like a man is with you yeah I think there should be like Pete like I think if a man is like looking like single in public that's weird I think there's a different level though of like

what a girl needs though because i feel like in the sense i needed that but i was getting it but not to the extent that i needed it you know yeah but i feel like if a guy likes you like they're gonna like touch you yeah yeah like they should be touchy with you touch not like absurd because some people just aren't like that but like it should be like there should be physical touch like if you're sitting at like if you're like at a club or at a bar they should be touching you and i feel like if they're not that's weird it's like why are you trying to look like single mm-hmm

I feel like that's like a big one. This other one, which like just was a situation I was in it. Like if they want to meet your friends, they introduce you to their friends. Oh yeah. That one's huge. Huge. Cause then that makes it more like that's even another level of like, do they like me? I feel like,

You have to go through all those other little things to actually feel it. But then the second one, they're like, oh, do you want to meet my friends? Like, oh, okay. Like, come to this with me. Yeah, like, you really do, like, fuck with me. You see something there. And then when you meet their friends, if their friends, like, know about you. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. Like, their friends are like, I have heard lots about this. Yeah. It's like, oh, he's kind of in... Like, he's into you. Yeah. Because...

Or else like no everyone would just be like oh like they like who the fuck is this but if like if you go meet his friends and it's obvious that his friends are like oh we've heard about you. Yeah. Yeah he likes you. Or just like excited over it because if a guy is gonna be bringing a like say he does that all the time like he'll meet you once or twice or whatever and is like constantly bringing a new girl into the circle and they're just not really like as excited about it. Gotta like read like the room of the friends obviously and see if they're excited but like

Make sure that you're not always, or it's not like an always repeating thing every weekend of a new girl coming around to that friend group. Yeah, and you can tell. You can tell if it's like the vibes of...

what it is but like once they're introducing you to their friends and like you gotta gotta get a read on the friends the key is if one of their good friends like has a girlfriend gotta get tea gotta gossip yeah gotta get the tea on what's going on and on the situation and a read on him love doing that um this is so fucking basic but like remember if they actually remember things about you like if you've been hanging out with them a million times and like they're like wait what's like your middle name like okay fuck off yeah

Yeah. Like you're such a dick. Yeah. Just like the little things and especially at the very beginning of even kind of the talking stage of like, oh, you pass a restaurant. Like, oh, I really love that restaurant. Or, oh, I've been really wanting to try that place. And just like remembering like the little things that...

you say they remember the things you say and like plan accordingly yeah yeah and it's like every guy these are things though like people will do if they like you know if they're not like there's no exception yeah like if they don't like you they don't like you like i've always used this as an example but with my ex-boyfriend on like our first date i said how i really like baseball and like a few days later he was like do you want to come to this like baseball game with me like

duh like so easy it's not fucking hard but it's like oh you remembered that i said that and like if they just want to sleep with you they would never do that ever in their life um you know he's like literally not trying to date you every single conversation you have they try to turn it sexual like when they're just like always flirting with you and sexual sexually talking to you yeah like i would like text this guy and like it was literally like all just kind of like basically like oh fuck when are we gonna like fuck but then it's like but then we also never did because he's just like

I don't know, a loser. Our theory is that he probably just has like a micro penis or something, which like, I don't know. That's what I think. That's what he's made me think. Because like, why didn't you actually want to see me in real life? Like, what's your secret? What are you hiding? I guess we'll never know. But like when a conversation is like always sexual and there's like nothing else to talk about. Yeah. Like when they're like, don't give a shit about like weird things they do and they just want to be sexual with you. Or when... Also not, this is like so irrelevant, but like knowing that they're not into you is if like,

Say they're also trying to make plans with you, but they are not, like, fully fucking committed to making the plans, and they're, like, iffy. Yeah, and if he doesn't make plans in advance. Yeah. Like, no, like, I mean, obviously, if every single plan is, what are you doing tonight at 2 in the morning? He doesn't like you. But, like, plans in advance. Like, if it's Saturday, and he's like, what are you doing next weekend? Mm-hmm. There we go. Like, that's what we want to fucking hear. Or just, like, we should hang out.

I wish I could see you because I keep like telling friends and shit that like words, something I've just learned in dating. I mean, it just isn't like words mean nothing. Words have almost zero value. It's like, oh, but he says he wants to see me. Okay. But he hasn't like, and like this one weekend, this guy texted me like, oh, I wish I saw you. Okay. Then you should have.

I don't know what to tell you. Yeah. Like, we were, like, out at almost the same bar. Like, so see me. Like, I'm not that busy. I'm not a fucking... Like, you're acting like it's impossible to see me. Yeah, I think my biggest... You should have just asked me to hang out. My biggest issue with when I was in the dating scene here in Austin of, like, being out at bars and guys texting me, like, asking me where I was. And they're like, okay, like, I'm going to come find you. And, like, not coming to find me. It's like...

where you're sitting there with all the bros like at the bar like if you really wanted to see me you would have fucking made it work yeah and if they're at a bar and like they don't see you and they're like out drinking with the guys there's another girl yeah because like there has there's 99% probably someone else yeah that

they're seeing which then it's gross why do you even text me but i feel like in the video i posted when it's like oh he doesn't really plan so he doesn't see me doesn't see you people are like but he says he wants to but like this isn't this like then he would and it's like oh people are like oh but he is really busy with his job like 100 like i get it some people are in fucking like medical school right like you have a lot of stuff to do sure like okay but then if they were like hey like

I don't know. Like we have friends that work night shift as nurses and they still see people like you, like you can be like, Hey, yeah, I'm busy these next four days, but next weekend let's do something. Or like people, I think think from the video that I'm, I'm saying that a man on a Monday should take you out to like a five star dinner. Like, no, they can be like, do you want to go on a walk after like work? Yeah. Like they don't need to do anything crazy. Nothing crazy at all. They don't need to be so like have no, cause that's also weird if a man has no,

Like if they're literally doing nothing all the time. Yeah. Yeah. They should have a schedule and a job, but like, fuck, it's not that hard to be like, I want to, I want to go for a walk. I grab a coffee on Saturday. Like how busy are they? I will say with all of this too, though, ladies like trust your, your intuition. Like,

a guy like I got so many mixed singles with my boyfriend like we would be like out like he was my sneaky link keep that in mind like three months sneaky link but three month mark kind of got feelings for him but we would have like conversations drunk and like he would say things to me like liquor liquor coverage would come out and he would say certain things to me about like how he feels about me and like all this stuff and like in the back of my mind like

I knew this guy wasn't, like... He's not, like, a fuckboy, like, saying this to a bunch of people. Like, I know I'm the only one he's sleeping with because we sleep together every single night of the weekend. Like, I feel like I just trust my, like, inner, like... Just wait this out. See what the fuck the deal is with this. Because, like, you got to trust it a little bit. Like, I know, like, it sounds, like, toxic and kind of crazy, but...

Even like those like little drunk things that he's saying like made a huge difference and like okay this guy actually like he likes me like I would literally wake up in the morning and be like no but like Taylor I swear I know I was drunk but like we were staying up until like three in the morning talking about like this and like how like.

like whatever and like i get it he's just out of relationship like he needs time but like sounds crazy but trust your your instinct yeah you do have to trust your instinct and i was gonna write on here that if he likes you he'll also just tell you yeah yeah like i am a big communication person as i've said on here a million times we always say on here like this podcast doing social media has made me so open that like i will just want to have conversations with you about what's going on and like yeah

It might turn some guys away because like not I don't not like pulling like what are we like date me right on the first day. But I'm just kind of like what the fuck like I need to know like what what you're thinking in your brain. Yeah. Because I don't like I don't like surprises. Yeah. Like just be fucking straight up. And I feel like any time a guy like I've started dating or like likes me they they tell me.

And like some guys tell you, and if they, if they tell you and they're not doing anything about it, that's bullshit. But if they're doing all the right things, they'll also just tell you. Yeah. Like if they're treating you, you like shit off the bat, like why did he tells you he likes you? He doesn't like you. He's just saying, yeah. Like, why would you want to be with someone who, when you're not even together is not treating you accordingly. Like imagine getting in a relationship with that man and he's not even treating you accordingly. Like you got to make sure that,

He wants to put the effort in, wants to see you, all this stuff before. Hey, he's your boyfriend now. And he never was even putting in the effort. But now he has the label on it. So he feels like he can take it even more of a step back. So... Yeah. The other comment that I was getting a lot on the video was like, but why doesn't he like me? But why doesn't he like me? And you don't even fucking like them. Like...

anytime I've been dating and like, I don't like hang out with the guy after like we stopped talking. I feel like there's a split second of like, Oh damn, like why didn't he like me? Like I went on this one date in the beginning of the year. I literally didn't even like him. Okay. And like for a split second, when we didn't hang out again, I'm like, Oh damn, like he didn't like, like why didn't he want to hang out with me again? Like, I know I didn't really like him, but like, why didn't he like me? And it's like,

because we weren't fucking compatible. Yeah. Like, cause the same way I didn't really have that much fun. He didn't have that much fun. And like, why do you want this person to like you or like someone that's treating you like such trash garbage? And it's like, but why doesn't he like me? Why do you like him? He sucks. Like you don't like him either. You're just not compatible. Like there's so much focus when you're going on dates or talking with people and like getting them to like you. And then if you take a step back, you're like, wait, I literally don't

like him yeah like i want them to like me so bad but like they kind of suck actually yeah i mean i feel like i when i was dating people i've never was really in that like that headspace of like why didn't you like me it was more of like i think i want to like them i think it's people that are like strung along for a long time by someone who's only trying to sleep with them and it's like but why don't they like me yeah or like

Yeah, I don't know. I've just like see like it was a big thing in like the comments of like, well, why doesn't he like me? Like, bitch, you literally don't like them. Yeah, it's like also why does it matter? He's clearly not treating you good. Like and like, why would you want that? Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't like you? Yeah, like those TikToks that's like sorry to break it to you, but your soulmate would like you. Yeah. Like if he was your soulmate, he would like you. Yeah. So and like the things that it's just like recently the things I've heard men say to girls like like our friends like it's one friend.

It's crazy. Yeah. Like, it's crazy. And they get away with it because, like, these girls are insane. I know. Like, oh, my God, I don't want to, like, air people's business, but, like, okay. But just don't be a fucking stalker to men. Like, you don't need to be showing up where they are. You don't need to be, like, becoming friends with their friends just to be, like, in their inner circle and, like, force him to like you. Like, the feelings are going to come natural. I hate to break it to you. Like, why are you trying to show up and, like, force his emotions on you? Like, why?

Yes. Like do better. Like, yeah. Like that's like what I'm trying to say. Like someone's going to like you, whether like for just how you are, if you have to put on a front and become someone you're not in hang around people you don't hang out with and like things you don't like and rearrange your whole schedule for your day to like do things at the same time as him, then he doesn't like you. And he still doesn't like you. He doesn't fucking like you. Yeah. Like, and then you're putting on a front. So then if he does like you, what about when it all realizes that that's not even you? Yeah.

I know. Because that's not you. Yeah, it's not you. You literally just became like a groupie. You became a groupie. And those weren't your real friends the whole time because you were trying to be friends with his friends. So now where are your friends? Yeah, where are your friends? Those girls don't like you. Yeah. And then you're fucked. Like people just, it's just been a lot of people like throwing their life away for men that couldn't, like literally don't care what happened to them. It's kind of crazy. And I don't want, if you listen to this podcast, you're cool.

So I don't want you letting uncool people ruin your fucking life. Yeah. Because if you listen to this, like you're hot, you're cool. You probably work out. You're fun. So don't let these stupid ass men with their bullshit. And then it's kind of like your fault. Like unless the guy's blatantly lying to you, that's one thing. But if a man is just like casually seeing you, like he doesn't really owe you anything. And if you're getting tripped up, like that's on you.

you know like if a man is casually seeing you and then you find out like they're seeing other people but like they're not really lying to you or doing anything wrong like that's especially when you went on only two dates yeah like that's on you yeah like those feelings are your problem i've definitely been there done that we're dating in austin like i'm going on dates with multiple people at once like there was a time where i was going on like

first dates but then maybe a second date with somebody but then also in the same week going on a first date with somebody else like there are people who are allowed to do that so you don't really claim any like property or territory over someone that early on so don't get mad when like you hear that the guy that maybe you want a second date with is like also kind of just like playing his grounds like girls and guys are both allowed to do that it's equal game yeah you got to be realistic yeah got to be

Does it fucking hurt to see it and hear it? It fucking sucks. Yeah, but guess what? Like, you can do the same thing, you know? Like, that's just how it is. Speaking of things that hurt to see, except it didn't hurt to see, I saw a picture of my ex-girlfriend with a girl, and it didn't bother me. Your ex? You just said ex-girlfriend with a girl. Sorry, ex-boyfriend with a girl. And it didn't bother me. But that was his friend. No, no, no, no. Oh, okay.

their friends took a selfie at the bar and in the back he's like with a girl do you know who the girl is no it was her the back of her head but it didn't bother me so interesting a win is a fucking win you're diving deep into that photo no it was it was like literally right there oh okay like it was right there that would be like little like ants in the back no no no it was literally it was like a 0.5 selfie and like it was right there

So it was a group photo? But he wasn't looking at the photo. He was with the girl, like looking at the girl. Oh, his hands around her. Okay. Because I was going to say, if they're just standing there, I think he's thinking too deep into it. No, he had his hand around her. Okay. But they weren't looking at the picture. Gotcha. Yeah. Making sense? Yeah. Okay. And it didn't bother me. So that's huge for the program. Huge for the program. Huge for the program. I can't wait to tell my therapist. She'll be so happy about it. I'm going to go look at the podcast page.

pages you've been searching up i have not stalked my ex-boyfriend in three weeks i feel like i also don't do it on the podcast page oh well you used to and i feel like ever since i called you out you stopped doing it no that's not where i i'm gonna be so you act like i don't be straight up honest with you the place i would do it was on this other why were those searches in the in the podcast then it probably stayed but those are old old old old

yeah one time i did it there maybe once by accident but i wouldn't do it on that account i would do it on another one okay but yeah i just went to go look there's no searches i haven't done it in three weeks not once good not once good good good good good yep i'm starving i haven't done it not once i'm so hungry too i can't wait to eat same but yeah

I think that's it for me. I would talk longer, but I'm hungry and I've been up since six in the morning and I'm tired. I'm going to be up early these next few days. Oh, fuck. Yeah, you are. I'm curious to see how cheese will. I'm watching the dogs to a new environment. I'm watching the dogs. Hopefully it makes me make friends in my apartment complex. Yeah. When everyone's like, oh, it's a cute dogs. I'm a three animals in this bitch. Yeah.

fun have fun what if cheese falls off my balcony don't bring him out there don't bring him out there he can't fit through there oh 100 you can you think so he's so tiny i won't bring him out there then yeah okay well thanks for listening to us yap yeah bye guys