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CM 278: Lorraine Besser on Living a Richer Life

2024/11/3
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Gayle Allen: 快乐和意义是生活中重要的元素,但仅仅拥有它们并不足以构成完整而幸福的生活。 访谈中探讨了心理丰富性的概念,以及如何通过培养好奇心、接纳复杂的情感和挑战来获得心理丰富性。 访谈还探讨了快乐、意义和心理丰富性之间的关系,以及如何避免过分追求快乐和意义而导致生活平淡。 最后,访谈强调了独处和朋友在获得心理丰富性中的作用。 Lorraine Besser: 心理丰富性指的是那些具有挑战性、复杂性并对思维产生独特影响的体验。它与快乐和意义不同,可以独立存在,甚至包含痛苦的感受。 过分追求快乐和意义可能会适得其反,因为快乐是短暂的,而意义的追求也可能导致“到达谬误”,即达到目标后感觉空虚。 心理丰富性体验往往涉及让思维自由驰骋,这是一种非结构化的、自由流动的思维和情感的刺激。 挑战、复杂性和新奇性是心理丰富性的关键因素。新奇性与感官刺激不同,新奇应该着重于刺激思维。 我们可以重新看待生活中的障碍,将其转化为带来心理丰富性的机会。朋友可以帮助我们更深刻地体验情感,并提供不同的视角。 独处可以帮助我们培养获得有趣体验的能力,丰富那些通常被认为是浪费的时间。 了解心理丰富性可以帮助我们更好地掌控生活,即使在其他方面不如意,我们也能通过创造有趣体验来改善生活。

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We need pleasure in our lives. We also need meaning. Pleasure gives us joy and delight. Meaning gives us purpose and a set of goals to work toward.

But have there ever been times in your life when you’ve experienced meaning and pleasure, yet felt something was missing? Turns out, you’re not alone.

What’s missing, according to recent research, is something called psychological richness. Think of it as mental stimulation. A combination of curiosity and wonder. Lorraine Besser writes about this in her book, The Art of the Interesting: What We Miss in Our Pursuit of the Good Life and How to Cultivate It. She also shares what she and her research colleagues have learned about how to get it.

This is a book that takes something we know we need – mental challenge and stimulation – and calls it out as a key component for living a good life.

Episode Links

What If You Pursued What's Interesting Instead of Happiness?

How Novelty Positively Impacts Your Brain

Interview with Rainesford Stauffer

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