The "We" to "Me" Mindset Flip with Jose Velazquez
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In this new Pivotal Moments Media Charlie Mike Channel episode of Life After the Military, Lee and Howie speak with Sergeant Major (Retired) Jose Velazquez.

Jose provides invaluable insights into his military transition preparation and execution.

Jose wisely advises transitioning service members to apply the skills they learned in the military to own and execute their transition. 

Jose shares the importance and value of eliminating debt to lower the stress of the transition period. 

Jose also describes the invaluable role that his spouse played in their steps to execute their transition. With his wife taking part in all transition briefings and classes, she brought a perspective to the process that really helped Jose plan more effectively. 

Jose also shares the importance for him to seek a post military role that enabled him to find purpose and value in what he wanted to do in broadcasting and teaching. 

Jose and Howie describe the value they received by completing the Leader Transition Institute course “Changing Focus from We to Me”) and highly encourage all transitioning service members to take this course.

Jose expands on the importance of finding and using mentors to leverage their lessons learned. When he decided to pursue his entrepreneurial spirit and start his own business, he leaned on several mentors to show him the way. 

Although struggling with some mental health challenges resulting from leading men and women in combat, Jose candidly shares the value of seeking and asking for help and being there for others when they need someone to talk to. 

**Show Notes:**2:00  Jose discusses his personal transition out of the military 10:15 Howie discusses the value of reducing debt to create breathing room during transition 12:51 Finding purpose and fulfillment after the military15:18 Jose elaborates on becoming an entrepreneur20:31 Discussion around “Owning the Process” of transition and asking for help.36:49 Jose explains the Leadership Transition Institute and going from “WE” to “ME”45:39 Howie expands on his experiences transitioning and the tools he finds value in today55:01 Lee Discusses helping yourself before helping others1:01:45 Jose describes his mental fitness journey 1:15:20 Jose shares a personal story about reframing his experiences through a redefinition of strength