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#128. Steve Shi: A Few Rules For Life

2023/7/18
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史蒂夫·希结合自身经历和临床经验,深入探讨了中国心理健康现状,指出中国现代史上的动荡时期对家庭结构和人际关系造成了破坏性影响,导致了跨代创伤。许多20-30岁的中国人的问题都与父母的经历和20世纪60-70年代的历史创伤有关。他还分析了中国文化中情感表达受限和情感忽视的普遍性,以及这些因素如何影响现代人际关系,特别是恋爱关系和家庭关系。他认为,来自破碎家庭的人更容易拥有破碎的家庭,但他们也可以将创伤转化为个人成长的动力。他还强调了自我关爱的重要性,以及在处理人际关系问题时,应该避免一味指责,而应尝试理解他人的视角和故事。 Justin和Howie则从自身经历出发,分享了作为ABC(美籍华裔)在中西方文化背景下的成长体验和困惑,以及他们对中国社会媒体现状的观察和担忧。他们认为,中国年轻人更容易受到社会媒体负面信息的影响,并且在面对批评和负面评价时,缺乏自我保护机制。 三人共同探讨了中国传统文化中“孝顺”和“集体主义”价值观对个人心理健康的影响,以及如何在现代社会中平衡个人需求与社会期望。他们还讨论了乔丹·彼得森的《人生十二条法则》及其对中国读者的启示,以及如何将西方心理学理论与中国文化背景相结合,以更好地应对中国社会的心理健康挑战。 Justin和Howie分享了他们作为美籍华裔在中西方文化背景下成长的经历和感受,以及他们对中国社会媒体现状的观察和担忧。他们认为,中国年轻人更容易受到社会媒体负面信息的影响,并且在面对批评和负面评价时,缺乏自我保护机制。他们还探讨了如何在现代社会中平衡个人需求与社会期望,以及如何更好地应对社会压力。 Howie补充了对中国社会媒体现状的分析,认为中国社交媒体上的网络欺凌现象严重,人们容易受到伤害,并且负面评论可能会导致心理健康问题,甚至自杀。他还指出,中国年轻人更容易受到社会媒体负面信息的影响,因为中国文化更强调集体主义和社会评价。

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Therapy is categorized into different types, including supportive, educative, and reconstructive therapy. Each type addresses specific needs, such as grief or personality reconstruction.

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Steve Shi is a psychotherapist, podcaster, personal growth and mental health educator and writer. He is a Top 50 most influential psychology professional in China and is host of “史蒂夫说” podcast, winner of 2019 Apple Best Podcast in Chinese. He was also the official Chinese translator of Jordan Peterson’s “12 Rules For Life”.  Today we dive into the psychology of relationships, our relationships with family, romantic partners and our relationship with culture, society, places and technology. We talk about emotional neglect, self neglect, confronting the emotional trauma within our parents and confronting repressive cultural values. We talk about “12 Rules For Life”, Jordan Peterson, social media and mental health. This one turned out to be a beautiful and chaotic commentary on modern life, hopefully we walked away with a few new rules to live by.


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