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My Two Cents on 唐山烧烤店案件

2022/6/12
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Nikki shares her personal experiences with sexual harassment and discusses the prevalence and types of harassment women face, emphasizing the need for awareness and caution.

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Okay friends, welcome back to this channel again. This is Nikki. Now let's talk about the Tangshan case where one piece of garbage was sexually harassing a woman and then several pieces of the first garbage's garbage partners rushed inside of the restaurant and then beat the women up. Let's talk about this today.

And before I put any comment here, I would like to say I hope these assholes unwell. I hope that they are put into prison as soon as possible for as long as possible. I hope that they get beaten up by other fellow prisoners just for fun. All day, every day. Okay, so now let me calm down a little bit.

and continue with today's episode. Okay, so first of all, let's just talk about the sexual harassment part. I think that women in general, we have suffered enough. I mean, in the CCTV footage, when seeing that the criminal went directly to the victim girl and then put his dirty hand on her back,

I believe that a lot of women feel offended and angry because we have shared the similar memory. I mean, so easily we can share the similar memory, you know? I am here just telling you guys some of my own experience. I was once walking on the street and then a guy on his scooter quickly passed me by and then the asshole just slapped my butt and then rode off.

He was on a vehicle and I was on foot. So by the time when I screamed out, fuck you, he was already 20 meters away from me and I could do nothing about it. I was angry. I was shaking. I just wanted to beat him up, but I could do nothing, you know? So these things just happened to me. It's just not like one time. It's just a one tiny story, you know?

Growing up, I have been through countless times when something like this just happened. Some of the harassments were physical and some were verbal. And some took place right on the street and some in the office. And some happened here in China and some happened abroad when I was traveling. Of course, these things are not very severe and not very serious, but you can feel that kind of energy from those assholes, you know?

so i simply don't understand why some guys can be so brazen so unscrupulous they think they're funny and they don't take a shame at all they don't take shame at all at what what they do you know so if you are a girl then i think that probably in the future you might meet something like this some shitty things like this as well so here i just offer some of my advice so first of all

Don't be alone out there in the street, especially at night. And if you have finished a party or something and then you need to go home, please just hail a premier car and have the driver send you right at the gate of the building where your apartment is located. Just don't hang around alone in the dark for too long because it might be dangerous. And secondly,

If you get unlucky and someone is sexually harassing you verbally or physically in the public area, then please just don't be scared. You should just raise your voice or shout out loud and try to get others' attention in this case. If the guy who is harassing you is alone, then usually he will be scared off.

I know that here some girls might be concerned that maybe this guy will hit you just like how the Tangshan garbage is just hitting the girl in the barbecue restaurant. Well, I think that the Tangshan case where the garbage just hits the girls is an extreme case because there is already a gangster element in it. And for most guys who publicly harass a woman,

harass a woman. I think that they are creepy losers who dare not attack you, right? You just raise your voice, call the police, record videos or audios. But remember, I am talking about in public. If you get harassed privately,

Well, in most cases, I think it is already not a stranger. And so first of all, you need to try to collect some evidence. And secondly, you just need to figure out a way to stay as far away as possible from this person. Well, so these are my suggestions. And girls, I know that it is super unfair for us to have to suffer from and be prepared for these shitty things in life.

But you know what? Complaining is useless. I mean, no matter how developed and how good a society is, there will always be these low-life male losers who try to find some easy target. So we need to learn to get strong and get tough. And we need to learn how to protect ourselves. Okay, so now let's come to the second part of the Tang Shan case, which is the violence part.

You know, honestly speaking, I cannot believe that. I cannot believe how blatant, how savage and how brutal these pieces of garbage can be. I mean, if you look at the CCTV footage, if you look at how these people are actually hitting the girls, I think that they're already trying to kill the girl. It's beyond imagination. I think it's no less than a murder case, which is a very serious crime.

So this is why I think that when these pieces of garbage are prosecuted, they should be accused of murder, no less. And this actually has nothing to do with men in general being violent, in fact. I feel like the overwhelming majority of men in a society are definitely not like that. This is just about these few lowlife just losing humanity and conducting murder.

you know why do i feel like i have to say so because you know these two days i have seen that some people online just criticize the male group in general for being violent but i don't really think it's the point really i mean most guys are good most guys are actually friendly so i think that the more important question to ask is why

The men like creatures, the moving garbage in the Tangshan BBQ restaurant can be so brutal and violent. I mean how dare they? Does the local place have someone in the authority who can offer to protect them so that they can be this violent in the public place with a security camera? Or what crimes did they commit in the past?

I think that these questions should be asked and also should be investigated thoroughly to figure out if there is a dark chain of interest submerged underwater here. So please, just no matter how angry you are, please just don't follow these overly emotional and biased criticism targeted at all men in general. Please don't.

And also, you know, some people have issues with the bystanders in the restaurant and then blame them for not jumping into the brawl and then fight the assaulters. Well, I think it does not make sense for them to get involved in the fight, especially when there are nine pieces of super violent and bloody pieces of garbages. Of garbage, I'm sorry.

Whereas on the good people side, we probably cannot outnumber them, so the chance of winning is pretty low, right? So we should not really blame these bystanders. And the most rational decision for them is actually to call the police at that point.

And if you guys are interested, you guys can actually check up some relevant laws. Actually, the law in our country does not encourage the so-called "jian yi yong wei" in a group fight because it will easily put yourself into danger and it will most likely not help to really solve the problem. So I think that, you know, sometimes we deserve to be very angry at some certain behaviors.

or at some certain phenomenon but sometimes we need to save our emotion and then we need to target our emotion at the most important and serious questions to ask so these are the messages that I really want to deliver after checking of the news you know that I have seen these few days I feel like I am beyond angry actually but you know I will also follow through the case and

if you guys just have some other things that you you just want to share with me or just chat with me please just leave me comments or just scan the qr code and join our group for some further discussions so thank you for listening and this is nikki and i am gonna just see you guys next round bye