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'Full-time children' now want out?

2024/12/12
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He Yang: 本期节目讨论了中国兴起的‘全职子女’现象,即成年子女返家承担家务并获得经济支持。这种现象并非单纯的依赖,而是子女与父母之间一种隐形的约定:子女通过承担家务和照顾来换取经济支持。这种模式在不同家庭中存在差异,也可能引发文化上的不适感。 随着时间的推移,许多‘全职子女’开始表达想要离开家庭角色,重新进入职场的愿望。这其中既有社会压力,也有个人发展需求的考量。社会上可能存在对‘全职子女’的刻板印象,认为他们无所事事。而对于‘全职子女’个人而言,他们也可能担心无法持续提供经济支持,或者个人发展受到限制,甚至家庭关系的紧张。 ‘全职子女’现象的出现也反映了中国家庭在经济压力面前的缓冲作用,以及家庭在社会中的重要性。 Steve Hatherly: 西方国家也有类似现象,例如‘回旋镖儿童’(Boomerang kids),但与中国‘全职子女’有所不同。西方国家的类似现象更多地与经济困难相关,而‘全职子女’则更强调暂时性及主动选择。 在西方文化中,成年子女搬离父母家较为普遍,但并非绝对。疫情和经济危机等因素也导致许多年轻人选择返家居住。 ‘全职子女’现象并非正式雇佣关系,但存在经济上的补偿,这在不同家庭中存在差异,也可能引发文化上的不适感。 对于‘全职子女’的经验教训,需要根据具体情况分析。有些人选择返家是为了照顾年迈的父母,体现了家庭责任感;有些人则是为了准备考试或寻找工作机会,这体现了个人发展规划。 Yushun: 中国等亚洲国家,成年子女与父母同住较为普遍,这与西方文化存在差异。在中国,这种现象与独生子女政策和传统文化中的代际互助有关。 中国父母更易接受子女返家同住,这与独生子女政策和传统文化中的代际互助有关。父母在子女成年后,通常会继续提供经济和生活上的支持,而子女则在父母年老时给予照顾。 然而,‘全职子女’的体验可能存在蜜月期和后续的矛盾。长时间的相处可能会导致家庭关系紧张,因此需要平衡家庭关系和个人发展。 ‘全职子女’现象也反映了家庭在经济压力面前的缓冲作用,并非人人适用。

Deep Dive

Key Insights

What is the term 'full-time children' referring to?

It refers to young adults who return to live with their parents, managing household chores and caregiving in exchange for financial support.

Why did the term 'full-time children' gain popularity in China?

It gained traction in late 2022, sparking discussions on social media and mainstream media about the phenomenon of young adults returning home to live with their parents.

What are some Western terms similar to 'full-time children'?

Terms like 'boomerang kids' (those who return home due to financial difficulties) and 'failure to launch' (young adults unable or unwilling to leave home) are similar but not identical.

Why do some young adults in China choose to become 'full-time children'?

They may return home for reasons like taking a gap year, preparing for exams, or seeking higher education, with the support of their parents.

What are the cultural differences between China and the West regarding young adults living with their parents?

In China, living with parents until marriage is considered normal, while in the West, it's typical for young adults to move out by age 18 for university or work.

What responsibilities do 'full-time children' typically take on at home?

They often handle household chores, caregiving duties, and assist their parents, such as taking them to medical appointments or managing daily tasks.

Why are some 'full-time children' now expressing a desire to leave their parents' homes?

They may feel the need to reenter the workforce to support their parents financially or to avoid stagnation in their personal growth and career development.

How does the concept of 'full-time children' reflect on family financial stability in China?

It suggests that families with financial stability, such as those with pensions or other income sources, can afford to support their children's return home without significant strain.

What role do families play in absorbing economic strain in Chinese society?

Families serve as safe havens, absorbing economic pressures that might otherwise fall on society, especially during times of financial difficulty or global crises like COVID-19.

What are the potential downsides of being a 'full-time child'?

It can lead to stagnation in personal growth, potential employment gaps on resumes, and strain on family relationships due to constant proximity.

Chapters
The podcast discusses the phenomenon of 'full-time children' in China, where young adults live with their parents and manage the household in exchange for support. The term's emergence in 2022 sparked debate, particularly among those questioning the arrangement and considering re-entering the workforce. The discussion compares this to similar Western concepts like 'boomerang kids' and 'failure to launch', highlighting cultural differences in expectations around adult independence.
  • The term "full-time children" gained traction in late 2022 in China.
  • It refers to young adults living with parents, managing the household for financial support.
  • This is compared to Western terms like "boomerang kids" and "failure to launch", highlighting cultural nuances.

Shownotes Transcript

What happens when young adults exchange independence for family caregiving? These "full-time children" who came back to live with their parents and manage the household in exchange for support, are now questioning whether it is time to leave the nest for good. On the show: Heyang, Steve Hatherly & Yushun