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How Can I Set the Right Boundaries in a New Job?

2024/5/20
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Sarah: 我过去两次经历职业倦怠,主要原因是工作量过大,无法完成所有任务,以及领导层对工作期望不明确。此外,我过度投入工作关系和工作成果,忽视个人生活,并且习惯性地承担所有工作,没有想过拒绝。我将倦怠定义为工作凌驾于生活其他一切之上,工作占据全部生活。在之前的公司文化中,这种过度投入被视为积极和成功的表现,但我意识到这种模式不可持续,最终导致倦怠。 在反思过程中,我意识到自己需要改变,在新的工作中设定界限,保护自己。我希望能够更有效地沟通和表达自己的需求,在工作满意度和人际关系之间取得平衡,避免再次陷入倦怠。 Muriel Wilkins: Sarah的倦怠除了组织文化因素,也与她自身对同事的过度关照和对工作的过度投入有关。要解决她的倦怠问题,需要深入了解她过去的行为模式,并帮助她找到可以掌控的因素。个人无法改变整个组织文化,但可以改变自身的行为模式。通过设定边界,Sarah可以更好地保护自己,避免过度承担工作。设定边界并不意味着对抗他人,而是为了保护自己,就像消防员穿戴防护装备一样。Brene Brown的观点:同情心和边界不可分割,需要自我同情心来设定边界。仅仅意识到问题还不够,需要采取行动。Sarah需要设定优先级,管理预期,并与他人沟通。她需要学会接受“工作永远做不完”的事实,并专注于在有限的时间内完成工作。在新的工作中,她应该主动设定界限,例如每天六点下班,周一早上不安排会议,周四下午12点到1点不接受安排。这些边界可以帮助她更好地平衡工作和生活,避免再次经历倦怠。

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Why did Sarah decide to take an individual contributor role instead of a leadership position in her new job?

She wanted to focus on learning the ropes in a new industry and believed that stepping back from leadership might help her avoid burnout, which she had experienced in previous leadership roles.

What does Sarah define as burnout?

Burnout for Sarah is when work becomes the top priority above everything else, consuming her life and leaving no room for personal or family time.

What were some of the key indicators of burnout for Sarah in her past roles?

She felt overwhelmed by an insurmountable workload, experienced stress and anxiety from never being able to

Why did Sarah leave her previous roles where she experienced burnout?

She recognized that the work environment was harming her health and ability to thrive, and she knew it wasn't a sustainable place for her to continue.

What personal factors contributed to Sarah's burnout in addition to the organizational culture?

Sarah's deep connection to her coworkers, her desire to help others succeed, and her drive to achieve a

What protective gear does Sarah identify as crucial to avoid burnout in her new job?

She believes having access to and the willingness to use her voice to advocate for herself, set boundaries, and recognize when the workload is becoming unmanageable will be key.

What are some of the non-negotiable boundaries Sarah plans to set in her new job?

She wants to prioritize time for family, such as drop-off and pick-up duties, have no meetings on Monday mornings to focus on organization, and reserve Thursday afternoons for personal activities that recharge her.

How does Sarah plan to approach her workload to avoid burnout in her new role?

She intends to create space in her schedule, be more selective about what tasks she takes on, and communicate her boundaries clearly to her colleagues and leadership.

What lesson does Sarah take from the story of the monk who stops working at noon?

The lesson is that it's okay to accept that the work will never be fully

What final advice does Muriel give Sarah to avoid burnout in her new job?

Muriel advises Sarah to stay aware of her boundaries, communicate them clearly, and focus on prioritizing her tasks and managing expectations, both for herself and her team.

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The guest, Sarah, defines burnout as work taking precedence over everything else, where work is all-consuming, and there is no room for anything else. She shares several indicators of her burnout experiences, including working excessive hours, having an overwhelming workload, and witnessing colleagues struggling similarly. She attributes the expectations and culture of her workplace as significant contributors to her burnout.
  • Burnout is defined as work coming first above everything else.
  • Indicators of burnout include excessive workload, constant stress and anxiety, and observing colleagues facing similar struggles.
  • Workplace culture and expectations play a significant role in burnout.

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She’s experienced burnout in more than one past role. Now, after taking some time away from work, she’s gearing up to start a new position and she wants to avoid making the same mistakes. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her toward uncovering the root of her burnout and realizing how she can change the work habits that have caused it in the past.

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